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For me where I live, I don't want to be underestimated either because then I would be close to being perceived as a potential victim, an easy target. I always try to project a balance of not being weak, not being a threat, and not trying to be the tough guy in the room.So let people think what they want about whatever style, and they will underestimate if it comes to that
I agree with this, so I don't going around broadcasting that I practice MA. I actually teach my son this as well because I don't need violent teens trying to size him up. I also don't see this as an issue from students who are from schools that are focused on self-defense. The schools that only care about the color of the belts tend to have students who brag about their MA achievement and many of those people don't actually have the fighting skills that match the color of their belts.Don't go around broadcasting that you practice MA, and this is not an issue - at times when MA becomes needed, it is better a surprise.
It only matters what people think if you want them to think you are awesome.