What is marketed as confidence is generally rapid promotions, all of which have an associated testing fee.I see now. In short the word art is being used erronneously. Rather than art they are refering to the PURPOSE of ma.
That said ma can learned for whatever purpose you like, but you must be honest with yourself in that regard. If its for confidence ... What is it that makes you confident? If its for exercise ....lol(not even sure what say. haha)
There is a difference between mentioning the virutues of a martial art and using the non-martial virtues as a way of disguising the lack of content in the core area.The teacher on the hand can't be so liberal since he is teaching a martial art. His students can do as they please.
I think virtues of ma are mentioned because instructors dont want students to go look for fights. These virtues are seperate from the material itself.
Also, students are often given the impression that they are able to defend themselves. Since the students have no frame of referrence and trust the word of their teacher, they never find out that they have been taught a deficient curriculum until they actually need to use their supposed skills.
False confidence is worse than no confidence.
In order for it to be the student's fault, he or she must first have been taught practical material that can be applied. Often such schools as I described in my post do not provide this.In college there are different kinds of instructors. Some give you the material and have you learn to apply it yourself... Then you can ask questions if you like. Some would teach you ways of applying material... Both ways of teaching are ok. The student has to know what works for him.
I guess i'm saying that its the students fault if he cant apply what has learned.
Most assuredly.However, if non of his students are capable... Then the instructor should rethink teaching.
Daniel