Brother John said:
My point wasn't that the rules & laws & policies should be crafted in the mold of any religion, but by the will of the people...
thus if the majority of the 'will' has it that say, marriage shouldn't be redefined to meet the desires of the gay members of our society... then that's what sticks.
Using your example ... 'marriage' ... is it a religious institution, or is it a civil institution? In the Catholic church, marriage is one of the seven sacraments, therefore, it must be a religious institution. Yet, I was required to obtain a New Hampshire Marriage License, which makes marriage a civil institution.
In the religious institution, we see that God was not content to be alone, but embarked on a whole new life project. The commitments that husbands and wives make to each other are intended to be reflections of the commitment God has made to his Church.
http://www.americancatholic.org/Newsletters/CU/ac0596.asp
In the civil institution, the state grants specific rights to the couple. There are tax benefites, estate planning benefits, medical, governmental and employment benefits. Are these benefits, granted by the state, connected in any way to the religious? Of course not.
http://www.nolo.com/lawcenter/ency/article.cfm/ObjectID/E0366844-7992-4018-B581C6AE9BF8B045/catID/697DBAFE-20FF-467A-9E9395985EE7E825
So, what about the civil institution justifies prohibiting those benefits from same-sex couples who are willing to make the same commitment?
Currently, I think you would find the country split about 50/50 in saying there is no reason the state should deny marriage rights to gay couples. Although, the numbers are certainly against the 'term' marriage being used.
You know, in 40 years, this is not going to be an issue at all. Gay Marriage will be commonplace. Today's youth put on the cloak of homosexuality as a matter of rebellion, or exploration. Both of my daughters have proclaimed they are 'gay' or 'bi', although, we are fairly one of them is definiately heterosexual ... the other ... well, we'll see. But I see these declarations just expressions of pop-culture witnessed on MTV's 'Real Life' and 'Road Rules' and the like.
Brother John said:
In Iran the rules come directly from their religion. In our country it comes from the will of the people...
I remind you of Judge Roy Moore. Judge Moore was elevated to the highest court, and the highest position in the court for the State of Alabama. He then prominantly displayed in the courthouse a monument to the 10 Commandments. In that the Judge would be presiding legally over petitioners and accused in that court, and that he places his monument to 'acknowledge the sovereignty of God', how can you think the rules are not coming from 'religion'. In all of his arguments, he never in any way indicated that the laws of man should supercede the laws of his God.
I experience similar mis-givings when the President talks about 'solemn' responsibilities and obligations.
George W Bush said:
"I believe the most solemn duty
of the American president is to protect the American people."
"We have a solemn responsibility to support
the servicemen and women who defend us in the field of battle."
While the Presidents' linguistic skills are, shall we say, often challenged, I am of the opinion he uses this word as special code for the Christian Right. I believe he is using definition 1 listed below, rather than definition 3.
1 : marked by the invocation of a religious sanction <a solemn oath>
2 : marked by the observance of established form or ceremony; specifically : celebrated with full liturgical ceremony
3 a : awe-inspiring : b : marked by grave sedateness and earnest sobriety
The President tosses the word 'soul' around with similar casualness. I do not see him acknowledging the rights of those who believe differently than he, with the sole exception of the Presidential debate (when I almost fell out of my chair)
Brother John said:
and if those people are predominantly Judeo-Christian (which our country is) then it will reflect that. That's all I'm saying. It's not that anyone needs to be forced to "believe" anything from a religion that is not their own...that doesn't even enter into this subject, I feel. Just that the norms and trends of our society reflect the general concensus of the majority. Not that others rights are denied them. They are 'protected' too. But the minority doesn't have the right to redefine social norms for the country. (as in the case of gay marriage)
No one is forcing you or the rest of the American public to accept anything from another religion. Besides, history proves that an impossibility. Belief can not be mandated.
But, whether anyone is 'forced to believe' in George W's God is not the point. It is the argument made by the 2nd Amendment crowd. By even asking gun owners to register their weapons, you are beginning the process of confiscating the weapons.
By accepting the Christian definition of marriage as a 'social norm' ... we are turning our civil institution over religion. I believe we will all see the 'norm' change over time (as it did for slavery and sufferage).
OK .. enough of a rant for now ... I'm sure all be back. Thanks for listening - Mike