I find this to be a very interesting discussion - and, in fact, had this same discussion with a student whose minister wanted him to quit, based on the "turn the other cheek" concept referenced earlier; all I can say about my student's report of their discussion is that one should never argue semantics with a lawyer!
Here are a couple of concepts to add to the above:
From
Merriam-Webster:
pacĀ·iĀ·fist Pronunciation: \ˈpa-sə-fist\ Variant(s)
r pacĀ·iĀ·fisĀ·tic \ˌpa-sə-ˈfis-tik\ Function:
adjective Date:1908 1
: of, relating to, or characteristic of
pacifism or
pacifists 2
: strongly and actively opposed to conflict and especially war
pacĀ·iĀ·fism Pronunciation: \ˈpa-sə-ˌfi-zəm\ Function:
noun Etymology:French
pacifisme, from
pacifique pacificDate:1902 1
: opposition to war or violence as a means of settling disputes ;
specifically : refusal to bear arms on moral or religious grounds2
: an attitude or policy of nonresistance
Ā pacĀ·iĀ·fist \-fist\
noun
And, of course, the key concept was presented in
The Karate Kid (no matter how hokey the movie was, the concept remains valid):
Daniel: Hey - you ever get into fights when you were a kid?
Miyagi: Huh - plenty.
Daniel: Yeah, but it wasn't like the problem I have, right?
Miyagi: Why? Fighting fighting. Same same.
Daniel: Yeah, but you knew karate.
Miyagi: Someone always know more.
Daniel: You mean there were times when you were scared to fight?
Miyagi: Always scare. Miyagi hate fighting.
Daniel: Yeah, but you like karate.
Miyagi: So?
Daniel: So, karate's fighting. You train to fight.
Miyagi: That what you think?
Daniel: [
pondering] No.
Miyagi: Then why train?
Daniel: [
thinks] So I won't have to fight.
Miyagi: [
laughs] Miyagi have hope for you.