I have a friend who only drives big trucks. They are a good fit for him. He likes them, he uses their utility etc.
I have a friend who drives a Prius, and would never own a truck. The prius is a good fit for him, for many reasons.
Either of them could get in the others vehicle and drive to costco, go shopping successfully and come home with the groceries, successfully.
Either vehicle would "work" well for both, even though they may not be a good fit.
The point is, Kenpo is based on true principles, anyone who truly learns them will makes the system work for its intended purpose. However, it is understandable that aspects of Kenpo may not be someones "favorite" way to train or respond etc... so it may not be the best "fit" but that doesn't mean it wont "work" for them.
I get the analogy, but I do not believe it applies. A martial art is not a product in the sense that an automobile is.
Kenpo has a curriculum structure and mindset and approach to training that does not work for me. I can't go over every detail to justify it. All I can say is, I've been connected to kenpo since 1984, tho I've had long stretches where I did not train it. But I've considered it to be my roots in the martial arts, the first thing I studied, and I came back to it for a few years to give it another go. With that, as I stated before, I realized I never felt confident with it, I could never use the material in a meaningful way.
My training in other things opened my eyes and made me understand why I didnt' feel confident with my kenpo: there was a wholy different approach to training and priorities that made much more sense to me. That other stuff works for me; the kenpo, as a whole system, does not tho I freely admit there are pieces here and there that I can find useful.
Every martial art that is worth anything is based on true principles. Kenpo does not have the monopoly on that. But different arts have different approaches to training, structuring the curriculum, prioritizing what is important, and bringing it together. The way kenpo does that, in my experience, doesn't work for me. The way other systems does that, does work for me.
I know me, and after over 25 years training in a few different things, I know what works for me and what does not. I appreciate the input, but at the same time I'm reaching a point of bemusement that this thread has sort of become about convincing me that kenpo MUST work for me somehow.
Let me back up a moment and qualify this point a bit. OK, I do not mean to say that kenpo for me would be absolutely useless, that I could use no part of it whatsoever. I could take the basics and use them to be a moderately effective and successful brawler. A handful of the SD techs might give me the material and know-how get me out of a scrape if someone tried to grab ahold of me somehow. So no, it's not 100% unuseable to me. I think it's important to recognize that we usually cannot speak in absolutes.
However, the vast majority of what is in the curriculum, that we work on and train, does not work for me and doesn't make sense to me as a training model and a curriculum. Much of it simply does not connect for me, and as a vehicle for self defense and/or pugilism, I do not believe kenpo would ever get me beyond moderately effective and successful.
I'm looking for more than that, and kenpo will not get me there.
Other systems however, for me, I believe will take me beyond that. The way the system is structured, the curriulum, the training methods, the very mindset and approach to the material is different, and it makes tremendous sense to me and that is a vehicle that I can embrace to rise to a higher level.
That is what I mean when I say, Kenpo does not work for me. It's not absolute. But relative to other methods, it does not work nearly as well for me.
@ Crane - If you don't mind, I'm curious as to what lineage you studied under in American Kenpo. You can PM if you want. I don't want to start a political debate about lineages, however, I have been with several associations in American Kenpo, and with some of them, I had some of the feelings you described. I learned after some trial and error, that it wasn't "kenpo". The right combination of the right teacher, and the right association changed everything. Just a thought.
I've never made a secret about my training. I've trained in the Tracy lineage in the 1980s, to Shodan. This thread was posted in the General Kenpo Section, so I did not assume it was strictly later lineages of kenpo. I drifted for a bunch of years while I was interested in other things, then a few years ago found a new teacher in Tracys and completely retrained to shodan and retested again. My last teacher is one of the best and senior-most teachers in the Tracy lineage. He is extremely skilled and knowledgeable, and honestly I learned a lot from him. I have infinite respect for him, and I want to make it clear that absolutely everything that I am saying in all this is ME, and in no way reflects on him. He has not failed me as a teacher, as a friend, as a kenpoist. He did his job remarkably well. It was ME who connected the dots based on my other experiences and realized that kenpo is not the best path for me and does not work well for me.
I appreciate the discussion on this, but we have really gone quite wide of the topic of this thread. I don't want to make this thread about me, and why kenpo does not work for me. I didn't intend that. Further discussion on that specifically, maybe should be taken to private messages, or even a new thread, I don't mind.