‘That’ Person

[Gyakuto]

I think it's important not to think of yourself as something other than "these people".

I am ‘that’ person when it comes to say dancing, office administration, athletics; I’m useless at them. You are also ‘that’ person in many fields.

For example you appear to be into Japanese swords.

Just a little bit, really. I don’t lick them or touch them inappropriately or anything.

Can you provide some examples of your expertise in Japanese swords?

No - I am far from an expert. The only objective measures of anything are probably examination/grading/Olympic gold medals (the others don’t count -they for the first and second losers) results administered by a well-organised governing body. This is why we have degrees, masters and Ph.Ds, City & Guilds in plumbing (I’d love to be a plumber), building, plastering etc. I know not of such a structure for learning about swords (unfortunately)

Subjectively, one can usually spot expertise in a performance; you can spot an accomplished acting performance at the Royal Shakespeare Company in Stratford -upon-Avon (my old haunt) over a poor one in the ‘Pirates of Penzance’ at Holmfirth Village Hall. You can look at a good and poor dancing performance without being able to specify beyond the very basics, why one is good and why one is bad. It is not logical, but it is often true.

 

[Badhabits]

I can't count how many times I heard my father say that the people with little natural talent benefit the most from training if they stick with it.

 

[wab25]

I ended up thinking about this thread last night on my way home from the dojo. A few interesting thoughts came to me regarding this subject.

I have now had 2 girls, who are my students, get physically assaulted. One was out at a bar, the other was in her own front yard. Both of these students would fall under your definition of "that student." They are a little clumsy, take a while to pick up the techniques... they will never win a championship, an Olympic medal or become recognized masters of our art. However, both were able to use what they learned in class to end the assault. One was able to break free and escape, the other put her attacker down. Thinking about this thread last night, these incidents popped into my mind and I was grateful that I did not take the suggested course of action with these two.

I have had a few gifted students, but most of my students are "those students." While they are not gifted, some are not even athletic, we show up and train and get a little better. Nearly every single student I have had, has at least one story of taking a fall, in the real world, but because of the rolling / falling training we do in Danzan Ryu, they were able to get up and laugh about it, when many of those times they could have ended up in the hospital. Again, I am glad we spent the time to teach these folks how to fall and not get hurt.... because they did fall and did not get hurt. (most of us clumsy folks have many such stories.... I know I do)

If people want to come and train... they should be welcome to come and train. You never know what will come of it.

 

[Gyakuto]

I can't count how many times I heard my father say that the people with little natural talent benefit the most from training if they stick with it.

Oh you should give him a copy of Bounce/Peak. They are truly fascinating reads and really fit in with the ‘American dream’ that hard work can get you anywhere.

 

[Sammy Naur]

You are also ‘that’ person in many fields.

What?

You are projecting, you come across as angry.

Go join a boxing gym or some solace place where you can let it out.

 

[Sammy Naur]

Read these and then get back to me.

Nope. Get back to yourself.

I hate repeating myself but you are one of those people who watch combat, and talk about it, but probably have not lifted a dumbell in years. Imagine you trying to lift a human.

That sort of mental weakness leads people to starting threads like this.

 

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[ap Oweyn]

Minor bullying at school encouraged me to join a municipal Karate class as a 12 year old and the kung Fu TV series I watched as a child. It was £10 for ten weeks of 2hour training! I got a book out of the library called ‘Know Karate Do’ by Bryan Williams and absorbed every word. It was a really good introductory book and I recently bought a copy from ebay from nostalgic perusal!

I think it’s quite common for sword arts. Friend from my old club tell me that they regularly have beginners arrive for their first class with sharpened, totally white katana (which I think is an anime thing). Remember swords are illegal in the U.K., so this is very bold indeed.

No it isn’t. It’s your initial inspiration, which is great.

Yes that’s true, but, if like me you believe talent is made rather than inherited then be really involved in the training rather than coasting along in cool clothing, holding others back!

See that's the thing, isn't it. There may be an inciting event (e.g., bullying). But then there's also some source of inspiration (e.g., the Kung Fu series). We have a perceived problem and embrace a perceived solution. Personally, I don't think David Carradine could defeat a wet paper towel in single combat. But we latch onto what we latch onto. I'm 53 and can easily relate with Carradine and that show being your gateway. But kids using anime as their gateway seems perfectly understandable to me.

I also teach a weapon art that includes swords and knives. Part of the role of a teacher (in my view) is to disabuse those notions, not disown those students. Can you imagine a world in which education only holds itself accountable for those who show an aptitude? To me, that sounds like an absolute dumpster fire of a world.

I haven't lived in the UK for a very long time, so I had forgotten that swords are illegal. But you're telling me that, despite this being a crime, students regularly show up with sharpened katana on Day 1? How regularly are we talking?

Regardless, doesn't that seem like a fairly straightforward fix? "Um, no, you're not using that here today. Or any day. Now let's get to work properly."

Talent may be made. Or at least built upon. But, in my opinion, a teacher should help students to find their way in. Not everyone starts from the same place and it sometimes takes folks a while to find their "in."

I'm a nerd. And, while I'm very ambivalent about anime in particular, I get what it's like to look at martial arts and simultaneously think "this is awesome" and "this is the solution to my confidence problems." When I look back, I cringe at memories of sticking my little finger out in sparring like Bruce Lee. Or decorating my room with Asian characters I couldn't read. Or any number of other retrospectively silly behaviours. But that's life. People grow and change. And teachers help people grow and change.

Three other thoughts:

1. Teaching the less talented makes you a better teacher in my view. You have to work out different ways to get things across. There's value in that for any teacher.
2. Balancing the needs of students with less and more need is part of classroom management. I don't believe it impedes talented students for a teacher to not constantly be at their side.
3. One of the best ways for less talented people to learn is to see their peers doing it properly. Students frequently come in with an image in their heads, but that image can be revised and replaced. How's that going to happen if those students are rejected and sidelined?

 

[Gyakuto]

(Perhaps I should say, I have taken a controversial point of view to initiate conversation, play devils advocate etc. Many of you seem to understand this and are offering interesting points of view. Others seem to be unable to see that a view contrary to theirs isn’t necessarily wrong/immoral/unworthy)

 

[Sammy Naur]

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Please keep the conversation polite and respectful.

I apologize if I've been harsh.

But in the last week I've been called a liar, a fool, and now "that guy" by some Japanophile.

I guess I was suckered in, but you know something? I can beat the junk out of people in the clinch, because I've trained well.

Hopefully that helps explain why I get frustrated with these block quoting, "oh I've never actually boxed" posers who believe they're the tough guys. I've seen a lot of tough guys in my day, and most of them went home crying.

"That guy". Heh

 

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