IWishToLearn
3rd Black Belt
Who says the instructor is the model for behavior? There are a lot of aloof, self-centered people who are fantastic teachers, and claim to model the qualities you've listed, however anyone else you ask (besides themselves) will tell you otherwise. It happens far more often than I'd like to see it. Ethics and morals are completely subjective to the upbringing of us all as individuals. There isn't a cookie cutter mold that fits everyone, and therefore the ethics and morals taught in the dojo could very well be completely different from what you've known all your life at home. Teaching and instructor/student relationship are two completely separate issues.Good question as it seems to have struck a chord with many!
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By promoting based on time limits and physical ability you come to the situation we have today: many people wearing belts with lots of numbers on them that have a very limited, if any, concept of the mental aspects of a martial arts. I.e. code of honer, ethics, morals, teaching, student instructor relationship...
Do you have to know who someone is in their personal life to teach them effective self-defense? (I agree with you, for the record, just offering a counterpoint as food for thought.)And as an instructor (and your students represent you) how would you know the first thing about how this student would react in various situations? Courtsey? Integrity? Humility?... when you don't even know them!!!
Again, everyone's path is different. Unless you're a complete clone of your instructor, you'll move differently, have a different personality, and a different methodology for attempting to accomplish a similar goal. Who am I to decide what one of my student's "paths" are. All I can do is offer options and provide MY insight as to what path *I* believe is best for them to take. The choice is ultimately NOT the instructor's, but the students'. Not to sound cliche, but here's a quote from the Matrix - "I can show you the door, you're the one who has to walk through it."Two:
The very nature of the question, as presented, is an indicator of the students lack of ability/understanding. The martial arts are based on a student/instructor relationship that the instructor mentors the student on the journey by showing them the path.
What of the students who simply do not want to test for rank, but merely just want to train?Three:
This is no different than the student who tells you that they feel they are not ready to test. This is the same as a child saying, "Hey, I'm not ready for the third grade, so I think I'll stay in the second grade" It is not the child or the students decision on where they are at but the instructor/mentor. Once the student starts deciding when and what they want to do then there is no reason for the instructor/mentor as the student is calling the shots.
I'm about as non-traditional when it comes to the arts as you can get without doing away with the uniforms (we wear them to save wear and tear on street clothes) and belt (worn to help classmates determine who to ask for help) system entirely. I'm so sick and tired of seeing political agendas veiled behind Eastern philosophy/style of teaching it ain't funny. I haven't asked to test for any promotion I've tested in front of my instructors for since I figured out it wasn't the belt color that mattered, but the knowledge behind it instead. I have a general rule for my students that says, if they think they're ready to test, they can ask. Either way, be it if the student tests at my recommendation or if they themselves believe they're ready, they'll get the same brutally explorative testing procedure and grading. Some will pass, some will fail. Nobody is perfect, including the instructor - and too many instructors hold people back without even realizing it. I've seen several students who simply cannot perform during normal classes at 100% level, but when you start the test somehow they reach deep down and you get 125% out of them; as well as the direct opposite - the ones who are dead on in class can't test to save their lives. I've also had promotion dates set, and delayed for two years with no explanation given; as well as dates moved up by a year, and have been double and triple tested several times. In retrospect it was my instructor's decision, but it wasn't a very enjoyable experience for me either way. I would have preferred to move on when I could see for myself the results of the lessons I'd learned, rather than move on solely because someone else told me I was ready. Some of the time I didn't feel ready, made mistakes, and was passed along anywho. It was disheartening. I've heard instructors use the phrase "I passed them to motivate them to continue." If you're there for the color of your belt rank - that's a great policy. Nobody in my school is rank motivated - and to do so would destroy the fundamental approach to learning my school has fostered.Four:
This also shows a lack of understanding of the Eastern phylosophy/style of teaching. The last time any student of mine asked to test they lengthend their testing time by 6 months!
Who benefits from the situation in the long term? I've signed my name to several promotion certificates that I was asked to sit on the board for that I felt didn't pass the formal test, but I was over ruled. If belts and diplomas really don't mean anything - how are you damaging something with no meaning? I made a response to the original posted question on page 1 about having to issue a specifically worded diploma that would be vastly different from my own student's diplomas. The wording on a diploma in this circumstance would have to read something about merely acknowledging the skill level of this person in writing, rather than actually promoting this person - because to issue a promotion would place them in my own lineage, and I'd only consider this kind of rank to be similar to a test I was on the board for, but not in charge of promotion for.As the peice of paper or piece of cotten is meaningless my question to you is what would be the point, reason, usefulness of promoting them?
See above.In other words, why promote them?
Great points made - I love discussions like these.