don't worry about it people think that cos i train and fight muay thai then i gotta be a guy 
going super soft on us doesn't do anything for us tbh - we want the full experience and those that i train with know that i fight so i get a decent contest. i too have found that guys either go for my head or my abs and the kicks were very tame as well
shadow boxing in front of a mirror allows you to get your positioning right and you can also see if you've got your hands and body in the right places
i got a freestanding RDX body (man) and put that in front of the mirror just to make my home practice a bit more realistic
you also need to be training at home for a lot longer than 5 minutes at a time --- my home training sessions are about an hour long and i do them twice a day
--- you gotta know what your body is doing cos if get that nailed then the speed, power and awareness will be natural you won't need to think about anything other than what's coming at you 

going super soft on us doesn't do anything for us tbh - we want the full experience and those that i train with know that i fight so i get a decent contest. i too have found that guys either go for my head or my abs and the kicks were very tame as well

shadow boxing in front of a mirror allows you to get your positioning right and you can also see if you've got your hands and body in the right places

i got a freestanding RDX body (man) and put that in front of the mirror just to make my home practice a bit more realistic

you also need to be training at home for a lot longer than 5 minutes at a time --- my home training sessions are about an hour long and i do them twice a day

