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What do you mean by "tested"? Was he in on it, or did you just decide to bully him?
I bully him. Apologized after he was scared sh*tless.
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What do you mean by "tested"? Was he in on it, or did you just decide to bully him?
I bully him. Apologized after he was scared sh*tless.
If one is not aware that he freezes under pressure than one had lack of intelligence Didn’t we just saw a kiai master who had courage to challenge outside fighter and skills to brainwash his students, but unfortunately lacked intelligence to avoid place in himself in such ridiculous situation?
Courage alone won’t fix stupid
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My old sparring partner, Billy Blanks, is a beast of man. And Billy has trained with, or fought, just about everyone all over the world at one time or another. I asked him once, who the baddest man he ever met in the Martial world was.
He didn't even hesitate. He said his Tai Chi instructor from Pennsylvania, a Master Chan. Told me some great stories. He also said Master Chan's mom, also a life long Tai Chi practitioner, a little bitty woman, was pretty scary. In a nice way.
I never forgot that.
For me it's not this way. For me it's still the same. Applicable skill sets develops courage. Many in my generation used to speak that courage stuff, and some of those same people are dead because they felt they had to prove their courage.I’m not referring to fighting someone in the ring as a sport. But self defense in the real world.
If they are freezing then it's most likely they don't have the applicable skill sets to deal with the situation that they are in.All the intelligence in the world means nothing if you don’t have the courage. Many many people who MA intelligence will freeze when the situation arises.
lol.. well can't fault you for being honestI bully him. Apologized after he was scared sh*tless.
Most altercations in real like you won’t be subject to those kicks. Yes you can’t assume that but most of the time it’s not against a skilled fighter.
Against an average Joe all you need is a little more skill. But skill isn’t the key. The key is mentality. For instance a couple of months ago I tested a co worker of mine. I started pushing him and yelling at him. What did he do? He froze. I know for a fact I wouldn’t have froze and wouldn’t let anyone push me. After the first push I would have done something I wouldn’t have froze.
I bully him. Apologized after he was scared sh*tless.
As a side note, it was a lot of fun imagining what I might think in that situation. I just let my mind ramble, and out it cameI'm assuming that you're friends with the guy, otherwise you wouldn't have done this? I'm also assuming you're at work since you specified coworker? Correct me if either of those are wrong.
If not...are you certain that if a friend came up to you at work and started pushing and yelling at you, that you wouldn't freeze? That's a very specific scenario and different than a fight. If someone does that at a bar, I'm pretty sure I know how I'll respond because I've been in fights before. If someone I know and don't expect violence from were to all of a sudden assault me (not using the legal sense, but overwhelm me from the physical/verbal aspect), that's a lot tougher to call. I may do the same thing in the bar...or my brain may try to process what is going on (different than lack of courage, as again, I've been in enough fights to know I have that), and 'short circuit' in a sense.
What my brain may go through:
"Am I being attacked? Should I fight back? Wait that's Steve...do I attack him and hurt him, or refrain him. Wait...I'm at work. Is it a good idea for me to fight at all here? Can I just run away, or would that cause issues? Hang on a second, why is Steve attacking me? And why would he do that at work? He's yelling...is he actually attacking me or pushing me out of the way of something? Should I go back farther? Should I just stay still where he pushed me? Did I do something to him...do we need to talk this out before it gets really violent? Wait a second...is it worth that risk...should I just attack him now? But it's Steve. I like Steve. I don't want to hurt Steve. But I don't want Steve to hurt me. Well he only pushed me once...and he's not yelling anymore. I think I'm good, let's just ask him what happened."
And if there's a weapon involved, add: "Do I take out my weapon? If I do will I/will I have to use it? I'm at work, am I even allowed to have a weapon? What if my supervisor sees it? What if he does the same, and now it's a knife fight in the office?"
That entire thought process could happen from someone trained fight, with every confidence in the world that he could beat Steve. Personally, that thought process would be very different from, at a bar. "That guy just swung at me!" Followed by either "I'm going to protect myself.", "Is X okay?" or "Let me back up and see what's going on.". That's a split second process, that's decided by the other circumstances involved.
The bottom line is: taiji comes in package of two wellness/longevity/health and martial arts.
Taiji is not for everyone.
Taiji is not efficient way to learn combative usage quickly and requires time
Spending years practicing taiji doesn’t guarantee success.
A good qualified teacher is a key.
Until body method is learnt and understand applications/usage will only work with brute physical strength.
Compensating for lack of skills by vigorous none taiji related conditioning defeating the purpose of practicing taiji on the first place.
Do we agree ?
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I don't agree that Taiji is even good for longevity/health. The reason are:The bottom line is: taiji comes in package of two wellness/longevity/health and martial arts. ... Do we agree ?
I don't agree that Taiji is even good for longevity/health. The reason are:
1. No weight training - You may lose bone density in old age.
2. No heart stress test - The slow Taiji movement does not make your heart to work enough.
3. Not enough single leg balance training - You may lose balance and fall in old age.
If you don't agree with my opinion just give your reason. There is no need for personal attack.It doesn’t seem like you know much about traditional taiji.
If you don't agree with my opinion just give your reason. There is no need for personal attack.
Here is my teacher's Taiji.
I don't agree that Taiji is even good for longevity/health. The reason are:
1. No weight training - You may lose bone density in old age.
2. No heart stress test - The slow Taiji movement does not make your heart to work enough.
3. Not enough single leg balance training - You may lose balance and fall in old age.
It doesn’t seem like you know much about traditional taiji
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If you don't agree with my opinion just give your reason. There is no need for personal attack.
Here is my teacher's Taiji.
We may have some generation gap here.Sorry for my ignorance but I don’t know much about person on this video.