I am going to take this opportunity to engage in one of my favorite rants. Please know I mean nothing personal by it. I just like doing stuff like this.
Ahem.
Your situation may be different, given your proximity to belligerents of various types and your history. I won't presume to understand your situation.
In the USA, we have 'preppers' who believe that soon we will experience SHTF, and who gather together online to endlessly discuss various prepper things, including things labeled 'tactical' and 'Bug Out Bags' and 'EDC' firearms and knives, and geek out endlessly over brand names and celebrity endorsements. And of course, every six months, the fashionable prepper must throw it all away and start over, as the various items they've purchased have fallen out of fashion and will just never do.
So.
I consider 'prepping' in a generic sense to be self-defense adjacent. That is, if I drew a Venn diagram labeled 'Self Defense', martial arts and physical conditioning would be overlapping bubbles, as would emergency preparedness, which is the rational and sane side of 'prepping'.
Getting to your question, a survival pack would include things tangible and intangible such as skills. Skills in doing such things as training on how to exit your home in an emergency (like a fire or other natural disaster), how to regroup and account for the family (rally point), use a fire extinguisher and first aid kit (not a good time to learn how to deal with a sucking chest wound when you open the packet), and etc. How to recognize cloud formations that are likely to produce dangerous weather conditions.
Having plans matters as well. Like where to go once you've left your home. How to get there. How to pay for things when your credit cards no longer work. Where is your medication and how much of it have you stockpiled? Where are the pets to go and how will they be looked after? Children? Family? Neighbors?
I say this because natural emergencies are MUCH MORE LIKELY to occur than some national leader popping his cork, despite what the news talkers would tell us. Look to the insurance companies. They have to pay out, so they know what the risks are. In the USA, the most likely dangerous situations to occur are Floods, Storms, Fires (forest and kitchen), Tornadoes, Earthquakes, and then such things as drought and sea level rise. No men with guns or bombs making things messy in the USA. Not that they aren't a threat, they're just not a big threat.
The rational thinking person would take stock of their own circumstances. Where they live, what natural disasters are most likely? Prepare for those. Having a source of clean water is good. Having the ability to make electricity is good. Having necessary medications and medical devices (glasses, hearing aid batteries, etc) is good. Knowing where to get fuel is good. Having cash is good. Having working, tested, fire / smoke / carbon monoxide detectors is good. Knowing how to get out of your house in an emergency such as a fire is good. Knowing how to account for the family once having exited the domicile is good (people die every year rushing back into burning buildings to find family or pets who have already left). Having a first aid kit and knowing how to use it is good.
That is really what I call self-defense. That's what I call preparedness. It's reality-based. But it's boring. It's not sexy. It doesn't require gathering together to display one's latest penile-enhancing purchases (look at my new EDC, ooh ahh). The latter is what I refer to as 'tacticool macho BS' and yeah, I laugh and say it to their faces when I have the opportunity.
I am more concerned with the possibility of a grease fire in the kitchen or a flood in the basement (already had one of those) than I am with people dropping bombs or storming the homefront or whatnot. Yeah, those things could happen. But it's highly unlikely in the list of threats to myself and my family.
I give this rant every few years. No one listens, because it's not cool. I get it. But I feel compelled to pass it along anyway, because I care. Also I like to laugh at the preppers for their monster silliness.
EDIT: An addendum...I love to hear about my neighbors who have stashes of food, water, and firearms. They don't know how to use those firearms, so I'll be over directly to collect them in the case that I am wrong and the Russians *are* coming (old movie).
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