What it really comes down to is this simple: Christian charities do a ton of good in the world in return for a shitload of derision and snarky commentary. You don't want my help, when I offer freely, I'll say "F*** You, suffer" you want my help, but, decide to ridicule me, or ***** and whine about the manner in which I help you, same answer,"F*** you, suffer". You should be damned glad Catholic (and other Christian) charities are nicer than me.