Graywalker
Brown Belt
Although true, as long as there is some sort of safety net...it's not reality. It's like when I took up Kickboxing, I had been in many fights before I even walked into the place and I realized although it was aggressive and at times brutal, I would never use it exclusively, if at all in an actual fight. It was simply incomplete. But, from past experiences I had no fear of dying in the ring, compared to the battles that took place in the street. Most of that was for life or death.You can spar with people you know or don't know. Either way is fine. The person doesn't need to try to kill you in order for you to validate your skills. Killing and Fighting are not the same thing. A person doesn't have to fight someone in order to kill them.
If you fight with hands then the fear is getting hit, kicked, or put in some kind of lock that breaks a bone or causes you to passout.
If you fight with knives then the fear is about getting stabbed
If you fight with guns then the fear is about getting shot.
Seems pretty basic to me. There's a lot of people who get killed in the U.S. where it goes from argument to gunshots then death. In those situations your hand to hand combat skill may be totally irrelevant.
But then again, I grew up in the hole in central Washington. Where murder was and still is a daily thing. A cross roads for drug delivery and violent gangs.
I no longer live there, but have relatives and friends that still do and not much has changed from what I understand. Albeit, they are out of the lifestyle, the violence didn't change...it just moved on to the next generation.