Steve, I think Gerry would agree with most of your points, but your response bypassed the point he was trying to make in his comment that I've quoted above.
Namely, if you spar in the dojo (under a certain set of rules) and spar in a competition of some sort (tournament, cage fight, whatever) under those same exact rules, why would the former be considered training and only the latter be considered application?
I have my own answers for why someone might consider that to be the case.
- Many of us primarily spar "to learn" rather than "to win" in the dojo, while most people bring their "A game" to win in a formal competition.
- Adrenaline tends to be higher in an official competition with trophies or prize money on the line then in routine sparring in the dojo
- Tournament competition may provide the opportunity to test yourself against people other than your classmates
- If your goal is a winning athletic career, then official competition may involve "metagaming" factors beyond the official sparring rounds - things like scouting an opponent, knowing what the judges are looking for, cutting weight, etc
However, I'd still say that the distinction is a bit of a fuzzy boundary. Even those of us who spar "to learn" have plenty of experience with sparring partners who go balls-to-the-wall putting maximum effort into winning. And for those of us who train for generalized fighting ability, the metagame of a particular competition ruleset may not be so vital.
To use your own analogy, sparring in the dojo might be like swimming in an indoor pool while competing or fighting in the street might be like swimming in the ocean with the possibility of bad weather or riptides.
I do acknowledge your larger general point. That's why I don't claim that I am any kind of expert master in "street fighting" or "self-defense." On the other hand, I don't necessarily limit myself to saying "I teach the cultural heritage art of BJJ." What I do claim is that I have a reasonable degree of expertise in executing and teaching certain specific skills which may be useful in a variety of contexts. Things like:
- Escaping from the bottom of mount when someone is on top of me trying to choke me
- Getting back to my feet safely if I am on the ground and someone is standing over me trying to hit me
- Taking someone to the ground against their will when they are trying to hit me
- Punching someone with a reasonable degree of force while protecting myself from them doing the same to me
- Hitting someone with a stick while protecting myself from them doing the same to me
- Preventing someone from throwing me to the ground when they are really trying to do so
- Falling safely without being hurt when I fail at stopping someone from throwing me to the ground
- Choking someone unconscious when they are trying to not let me do that
- etc, etc, etc
Could those skills be useful in a self-defense situation? Sometimes, depending on the context.
Could those skills be useful in a fight? Sometimes, depending on the fight.
Could those skills be useful in a sporting competition? Sometimes, depending on the competition.
I don't claim to be any kind of great fighter or great competitor or self-defense guru, but the specific skills I teach I feel pretty confident in.