Those letters that were written back and forth are exactly the "boys game" I speak of in my earlier post, of that I wouldn't play. My husband loves challenges, and fighting and competing. I've already made plans as to how these will take place if they come up. He's been challenged to fight at a masters tournament in the recent past, but I didn't want him to go. It was a set up. obviously.
Where the GM of the style had a couple of hundred of his "followers" and students, and black belts there, whereas my husband would just have me.
The Gracies want to operate like this as well.
I found the reference to fighting at a police gym very amusing. Not exactly a neutral place. lol!
Emin seems to be a pretty good guy, and he's very intelligent as well. A true martial artist. But, these letters quickly go nowhere. And as I see it, gracies hiding behind the UFC. I've seen video where they go to another martial artists school and fight. But never without an all out "gang" of their own who hover around the fighters like vultures. I don't find that acceptable either. I don't know why the gracies didn't come to Emins school, or meet at the gyms of the martial arts magazines that he requested. But it's really not that important.
Everyone's going to have their opinion on this as well as the Chueng fight, and why Emin left EWTO. Again, the policticing in martial arts does the real damage to the arts. Egos and reputations and blah, blah. Maybe because I read alot of the Tao, and such I really see these situations and events differently than some.
I see lack of respect being given to either side in those letters, and as a woman see the attitudes differently.
But, to me, it's all a great lesson. Since my hubbie wants to compete, and accept challenge too. Hopefully I'll be better prepared and know how to deal with such behavior if the occasion arises. Which, unfortunately, it probably will, since we are opening a school in an area so saturated with BJJ, MMA, and TKD. Again, he's a guy, and looks forward to it. But, I shudder to think. Yet see the necessity in educating the public to our art. It's just a shame that people require so much psudo-truth and proof, like video and such. If people could really just try something new and different and make up their own minds themselves all this mess wouldn't be necessary.