What's the point in speed and power if you can't hit your target(s)? Knowing how to shoot an M16 won't make me lethal if I can't hit what I'm shooting at.
Proper form first, target practice second, then add speed, power, and target practice. Being able to get your foot up to your opponent's head and kick it is all about technique and control. Not control in the sense that you can keep your foot there and do squirrelly stuff, but being able to do it. Once you can (not full mastery, but a basic level of proficiency) then you start adding speed and power.
I think you're a lot closer to what everyone who's disagreeing with you than people realize.
I look at basic control as throwing a technique and being able to consistently hit a target. I don't mean a pin point target, but a consistent general area. Without a basic degree of consistency, you're just flailing away. Control can also be keeping your hands up when punching and kicking, not over swinging and falling over, and other stuff like that. There is a lot of crossover in control and proper technique.