Originally posted by Captain Harlock
While I firmly believe that one shouldn't suffer fools gladly, I also believe that a gentle hand rather that a bokken at full force is the best way to get a point across.
I think everyone present agrees...
I don't know this "RyuShiKan", and based on his attitude here and on other forums, I don't think I want to. I personally do not care if he is trained in TCM, an expert at his chosen art or can walk on water. The way you come across sir is as a self-important stuffed shirt, whose only joy in life appears to roughly bludgeon ‘newbies’ into line.
An interesting story springs to mind in response to this...
When I first joined the Army, I was wide-eyed with awe and impressed by the images presented to me: stern faced drill sergeants, uber-killer infantry sergeants (I was in the infantry when I first joined up), snipers that seemed to melt out of the forest and melt right back in...
Then, after a while, I began to become more educated in the ways of the profession of arms. I learned more about why things were done, not just how, about the mentality behind training, operations, etc. I grew up.
Now, after 14 years of service, I have an entirely different perspective of the Army. While I love
my Army dearly, and have dedicated the largest portion of my adult life to its service, I can see clearly now what I did not see before, and I have become jaded and cynical about what is in front of me. These 14 years of service have scarred my mindset, my family and my soul. I have lost friends and been rejected by family for my service. I see children given guns who have no business being out from behind mommy's apron just yet. I see veterans who have lost their drive and sit around, contributing little, waiting for the day they can file for retirement...
So if I were critical of
my Army, would you call me a "self-important stuffed shirt, whose only joy in life appears to roughly bludgeon ‘newbies’ into line," or would you see that I am perhaps a person with enough experience to know better than that wide-eyed new private from 14 years ago?
How does this equate with martial arts?
If you were a senior member of a school/style/association that had a member who took it upon him/her self to go out and promote his own take on things, without the support or permission of the person in charge of said school/style/association, and whose personal take on things was erroneous at best (and false or fraudulent at worst), would you not feel a certain compelling drive to educate those who are young and ignorant of the pitfalls of martial training? Or would you be content to allow them to fall victim to frauds and charlatains, waiting until they had been suitably victimized before you offered your help?
In this instance, I do
not refer to anything relating to RyuShiKan's background or organization, but actually my own. Our school had an instructor that began teaching things outside of our system and claiming it came from within our instruction; providing instruction in a manner that did little to develop the student, but instead intentionally hampered their development to insure ongoing tuition income. Should I sit back and allow those who may have been taken in by this person to continue on ignorant of the truth, or should I do what is right (whether they like me for it or not) and inform them of the real situation?
That is my take on how RyuShiKan and others here and elsewhere approach what they do. They are educated in the arts, they have experience within their respective style and with things outside of it, and when they come upon someone relatively new in MA who has been preyed upon by someone presenting sow's ears as silk purses, they feel an obligation to correct the errors they take as reality.
It seems sir that you are an instructor. Do you belittle, humiliate and otherwise abuse your students the way you hammer at those not worthy of your knowledge here and elsewhere?
No, in fact, RyuShiKan is very patient and explains at length the answers to any questions that are asked. He does so in a very casual and friendly manner. I train with him, and he has yet to be anything but calm and joking when confronted by my ineptitude.
Your few friends and students may come to your defense, but your postings give a deeper insight into the holes in your own soul.
As do yours, good "sir." Though you couch your comments in pleasantries and courtesy, the acid still eats its way through your words. You appear to be well read, and one capable of writing quite eloquently, but you do little to disguise your true intentions.
You have shared a lot of good information. Why do you persist in the self-righteous attitude?
I don't presume to speak for RyuShiKan, but from my own experience (16+ years of training, 11+ of teaching), when you are right, you are right, and after a while it becomes difficult to be tolerant of those who hang onto their own ignorance so religiously. There are those who were previous students of our system's rogue instructor who, when presented with the truth and the overwhelming evidence of their ignorance, instead followed said instructor rather than accept the fact that their efforts and money had been wasted. There are many in MA like that. I have yet to lose completely my ability to be patient with that kind of student, but I have little expectation for that patience to continue for many more years...
Perhaps it is you sir who should go away. I find the attitude of these ‘newbies’ to be far superior to yours. They at least don’t seem to believe that they know it all or hold all the answers.
No, but they remain in ignorance, wide-eyed and open to manipulation by those who lie in wait for just such an opportunity to meander by. It was really easy as a young private to be highly motivated about all that I did, all that I was exposed to, until later when I found out the real reasons (or lack thereof) behind things. At that point it became harder to remain fluffy and cuddly about the things I had experienced, and in order to educate the young soldiers whose lives were being influenced and impacted by those things, sometimes I had to be firm to the point of being rude. But they learned. Or they didn't.
Sometimes when the light of day shines on things that have lain hidden for a long time, what is revealed is distasteful. But better to have those things revealed than to walk around believing a handful of dung is a bag of diamonds.
Good day to you.
Gambarimasu.
:samurai: :tank: :samurai:
So, we gonna talk about this Naihanchi kata thingie or what?