Laurentkd
Master Black Belt
Exactly! I tried to make a similar point in another thread a while back and got smack around a bit for it but I agree with you a 100%.
Ah too bad! I would have backed you up if I had seen it.
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Exactly! I tried to make a similar point in another thread a while back and got smack around a bit for it but I agree with you a 100%.
That's understandable, but my master was of the opinion that by the time you're already 18 you could be sent off to war and "it's too late to learn to swim when you start to drown", and I kind of agree with him.
I agree with what you are saying, however....
how do we decide what IS acceptable to teach children. For example, I worry that teaching a child to strike to the throat will cause serious injury to a class room bully. However, I fear not teaching a child to strike to the throat will give them less of a chance to escape from an abductor.
I think it is hard to figure out how to train kids to defend themselves as well as when and to what extent to defend themselves. Which is also why I think respect and courtesy and self-control (etc) are such important parts of a child's training in martial art. Not that "character development" should be taught instead of martial arts, but it has to go hand in hand or else we are just training kids that won't know what is acceptable when (and in extreme cases bullies!).
It is a fine line...
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Yes, it definitely makes sense...
But by the time you're looking at 8- and 9-year-olds, you're dealing with people whoif my own son is at all typicaldo have a strong sense of moral awareness so far as actions and consequence go. They are quite capable of understanding that pain is a bad thing to cause someone else, that you may have to do it to prevent injury to yourself, and that that's the only reason you should ever apply it to another person. If the child is psychologically normal, they can, by around that agecertainly by 10 or so juxtapose the two ideasdon't be violent to people who aren't trying to hurt you, but do what you have to to defend yourself against someone who iswell enough to justify teaching them seriously effective techniques at that age.
Here is a short clip of Mas Oyama apparently giving a lesson to TKD practitioners in Korea, circa 1967. I wonder if this is around the time when General Choi tried to bring him into the TKD family. A cool bit of history for those interested in the arts.
Maybe we tend to under estimate what kids can understand and handle? In my opinion, as a society we definetly under estimate their ability to accept "losing" and that they aren't all that "special"!
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No, by all means, take the thread were ever you like. That’s the best part of having a discussion; who knows where it will end up?Well, since f2f started the thread, we're probably OK so far... he'll nudge it back if he thinks it's going too far off-topic, eh?
No, by all means, take the thread were ever you like. Thats the best part of having a discussion; who knows where it will end up?