For me, Martial Arts was just a hobby a sport that I pursued n the beginning.
It became an Obsession that turned into a way of life 4 me. I lived, breathed, ate, slept martial arts. I realized it began to over take my life to a point where I lost my family, friends, my job over my obession of the arts.
I later got involved and a job as a police officer. I then realized that this was a place that i could enjoy my obession and put it to work w/in my job. But even then Im finding it comeing into a risk factor of my work. I have began to after realizing this again, have let my martial arts take a step bck to my life. I think as any addiction it can be bad. Even though MA is not a drug is an addictive nature that like anything can create problems if u let something overrun your life.
I could not have a satisfiable and long lasting relationship due to my MA. My ex wife left me because i spent more time and money spent training than w/ her and my son.
It's defenitly something i've come to see and made aware of. Im just like any recovering addict. Im breaking it slowly and from training 5to 7 days a week down to just 1 day a week. It seems to be working w/ me. I find that im finding other things to do to fill my time that I never had the chance to enjoy before, like fishing, hiking, and spending money on other stuff rather than thousands in seminars and training.. Now w/ my job, they pay me to train.. so thats the way it should be!
I wonder if anyone else has seen their traiing and obsession w/ MA get in the way of their life?