Perhaps it is just my tendency to think of martial arts as just another sport, but here's a question:
Suppose you saw some kids in the park playing basketball, would you immediately think: "Silly kids, they want everything without effort, they should go join a real team, with a real coach!"
People do things for different reasons, and if someone wants to play around a little with firends, maybe pick some things up from books or videos, I say go for it. Have fun. WHo knows, maybe it will build interest and get them into it in a more organized way later on.
Essentially it comes across as saying "Play fighting is wrong" and anyone looking to playfight needs to join a club, I can't buy into that. Play fighting is in our nature. If people want to do it in there backyard, no different then playing football or rugby in there backyard. If they want to join a team, thats great too. But play fighting is not "special", coaches and clubs are great, but not required to have fun as any 5-15 year old male will strongly testify to.
Suppose you saw some kids in the park playing basketball, would you immediately think: "Silly kids, they want everything without effort, they should go join a real team, with a real coach!"
People do things for different reasons, and if someone wants to play around a little with firends, maybe pick some things up from books or videos, I say go for it. Have fun. WHo knows, maybe it will build interest and get them into it in a more organized way later on.
Essentially it comes across as saying "Play fighting is wrong" and anyone looking to playfight needs to join a club, I can't buy into that. Play fighting is in our nature. If people want to do it in there backyard, no different then playing football or rugby in there backyard. If they want to join a team, thats great too. But play fighting is not "special", coaches and clubs are great, but not required to have fun as any 5-15 year old male will strongly testify to.