Sue and I had a judge come out and marry us at our house with family and a few close friends. Because she wanted a wedding here. Then we went to England and exchanged vows on the battlements of one of the castles we stayed in. Because that's what I wanted.
But here's the genius part.
The two weddings were exactly a week apart, and the one in England was on the anniversary of our first date, to boot.
Since the one here was her desire, every year
she plans what we're going to do and takes me out, and I do the same for the one in England. So I'm 100% immune to the man-fear of forgetting an anniversary. Unless she also forgets, I'm guaranteed a 1 week reminder. And if she forgets, then I've got a Get Out of Jail For Free card. Pure genius, if I do say so myself.
This is Amberley Castle. We got married right outside the gate tower to the right.
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