I wasn't talking about social skills nor did I say anything about my issue and handling thereof was a generational thing. I have social skills - that is not my problem. They were taught in the Soviet Union too - at least when I was growing up in the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s. But my remark has nothing to do with the subject of social skills, which one can learn and control the usage of.
I am talking about something I cannot un-learn and cannot easily control. I have acute social anxiety, combined with five other symptoms associated with Borderline Personality Disorder. I have no idea what set of symptoms I might wake up with on a given day, and there are days when facing other people in person is an agonizing notion to me, which has a very real physical impact like a change in my body temperature, shivers, joint pain, migraine, and nausea. I have friends all over the world who know exactly what I'm talking about because they have a similar problem, so I am not unique in this. This too is not a generational thing - people like me have been around for as long as humanity existed. It's just that, in the past, we would often be dragged into social situation and told to stop being "standoffish" and "stuck up", when, in fact, we were sweating with anxiety and just wanting to go home and be alone. Now, I have tools to interact and be social on my own terms, without having to physically face a room full of strangers. Heck, even a room full of friends would be tough - but now I have a virtual room. I still meet with people in person, but now I can ease into it. I am not sure if this makes any sense to anyone who doesn't have this issue, so you'll just have to take my word for it.