What I would like is an honest answer of everyone who thinks they are a conservative like Don and similar threds like his is what comes in your mind first thing when think of yourself as a conservative?
When I think of myself as a conservative, I think of these things, in no particular order:
1) Strong military.
2) Small government.
3) State's rights.
4) Support for the Constitution.
5) Resistance to social change.
As I get older, I find myself more open to the role of government in areas of social services and regulation; I begin to see that the smooth functioning of society has come to depend on some of those things, and I don't resent them anymore. I am less rugged individualist and more communitarian-minded. However, I still resist and resent government intrusion into religion and the existing social order. I fear socialism, especially bungled, badly-done socialism. I also find myself fearing those GOP members who call themselves conservatives, but (as someone here mentioned) would make Ronald Reagan and Barry Goldwater spin in their graves. I fear they are less conservative and more populist-leaning-towards-fascist. The Left, I fear, is more populist-leaning-towards-fascist. Yes, fascism can be Left or Right -- it's mostly a militant brand of populism with Nationalist overtones. The Right is no longer 'Conservative' and the Left is no longer classical Liberal. They are both a mish-mash of gimme-gimmes with no regard for anyone but themselves and their vision of how the world ought to not just operate, but be forced to operate.
I am against being forced. So screw the Democrats and screw the Republicans. They both stink on ice.