Thanks for that post, Exile. Finding a place in a traditional dojo out here is a hard row to hoe. You don't offer money and expect to be taken on as a student. In fact, the Hikari no Dojo charges $5 a month for their lessons. the money is a token. The kind of dojos I'm looking at have 5-10 students. 20 at the very most and that is a huge training group. All of these teachers are very selective and very wary of taking on new students. For example, one of the Isshin Ryu people I approached interviewed me once on the phone, once in person, and once to test my skill. He said he would take me on as a student for two classes a month for $120 dollars. I took that to mean that he wasn't really serious, but was being polite and didn't want to say no. In Japanese culture, I guess this is commonplace, so I politely refused.
Anyway, I was invited to come and see a class and meet Mr. Goodin. I'm going to follow through with that and see where it leads. Hopefully I can make some in roads and get my name out there.
Good! I think that's the exactly right course for you (not in an absolute sense, but ratheras I hope I made cleargiven your own vision of the MAs, which is similar to mine I think, so I understand what the issues you refer to are). My guess is that, as Guardian indicated, persistence is the key. A reputation for seriousness and dedication is probably the crucial thing here, and from what you say, you're getting off on the right foot.
The scene out your way is obviously very, very old-schoolproof of the student's devotion is a prerequisite, to a much greater extent than it is in our McDojo/McDojang-infested MA world here on the mainlandbut the rewards will be correspondingly much greater. I earnestly wish you good luck on this quest, but personal qualities, which are not matters of luck at all, will in the end, I suspect, be far more importantand there, I think, you have many advantages.