I think that sparring is one of the most important aspects of Martial arts. We must remember that these are combat orientated art forms. Even the passive aggressive ones like Tai chi or Aikido are dealing with aggressive elements from an outside force. This doesnt mean that they cannot be used for health reasons or other reason but just that understanding the nature of combat is important to understanding the nature of your form. For aggressive styles we study combat so that we can create more power through our techniques. For passive style we study combat so that we can cancel aggression with control.
Personally I am not a fan of point sparring. I tried it and a lot of the arts Id learned to respond to attacks I was force to throw aside. I dont think that a learning environment that forces you to limit what you know is good for anyone, not just fighters. Think about it how many of us remember ever equation we learned in math class, not many. The reason is because we dont use them often and when a situation does arise where we need them it is hard to draw upon our knowledge. So why in all of gods green earth would I want to limit how I can protect myself in training knowing that if I need to do it in a real life situation I may hesitate or forget because I trained my body not to respond in that way.
Also, combat is frightening. A good hit to the face if you arent expecting it could make you cower even if you should fight back and its just because if youre not use to being hit you body goes into shock when it happens. In the end MA is about life, staying alive or promoting health and spirituality. I choose to train in a way that promotes my well being and not my down fall.
Its time for another lesson
I saw a mans eye twitch in response to his anger and
thought that this was a reasonable response. I adopted the habit of forcing my
eye to twitch when I was angry because I reasoned the gesture could never be
...misunderstood for anything but what it is. Unfortunately now I cannot keep my
eye from twitching when I am upset.
It is best not to show ugliness to others because in time it
becomes all that they see. When I am angry those closest to me look for my
twitch like the coming of a storm. It is much better to show happiness, to have
others expect you smile like the coming of dawn rather than the tempest your
anger incurs. But, I learned this truth too late and Im unable to quite the
storm.
Lesson. Never adapt a flaw willingly. We are the choices me
make.