Mr. E
Blue Belt
One of the reasons I like Martialtalk so far is that the staff here won't let a lot of the things I am going to complain about happen. Please keep that in mind as you read.
I also want to stress that I am not sympathetic at all to folks like Bruce Calkins. A thread I was just participating in linked to a thread with him in it. People that come onto boards, acting like they are experts with dubious claims need to be put in their place or else they will take over.
What I want to talk about are folks that feel the need to supress any other art or way of thinking about the martial arts other than what they do.
Sometimes it seems to be for money. There seems to be no better way to try to convince people that you have a good system than by trashing someone else. If you are in a position to look down your nose at others, then maybe people will think you know enough to make that type of judgement.
But there does seem to be a lot of people that come into forums that they have nothing to do with just to let the particpents know that they suck.
As I said, I don't think the staff here would let it happen. If you don't know what I am talking about, you probably will have to find the worst examples on other parts of the internet.
Everyone probably thinks that the art they study is the best. If we thought that the art we study wasn't the best, why bother to study it? But of course, what is best for me might not be the best for you. Some people only want just enough to give them an edge should they be attacked. Some want or need something that will take up a good part of their time and energy. Some people need to run away from violence if they can, and there are some brave people who need to run towards violence. Someone working a door might need to know how to hold someone for the police, someone in a rough neighborhood might be better served learning how to use a legal weapon.
There is no one right answer.
But that does not seem to stop some people from deciding that they and only they have the right idea when it comes to martial arts. They will go out of their way to make some forums unreadable with all the disruptions they cause. There is actually one site where the members get together and talk about trying to cause trouble in other MA forums!
It all reminds me of the Taliban. It was/is not enough for them to do certain things or go without others, everyone must show their devotion to God. Of course, the devotion to God by someone forced to do so probably is not very great. And the idea of sacrifice in Islam as explained to me is that the items that they must do without are like Lent- you have to give them up yourself to show your willingness to do without for God. So if someone else makes that choice for you, it has no meaning.
But that is not enough for the Taliban, and it is not enough for some of the folks on the internet it seems.
I do many arts. I don't do a lot more. If something does not appeal to me, I spend my time on something that does. I don't read or comment on boards devoted to things I don't do. It would be a waste of my time. I do not like golf and my answer to golf programs or internet sites is to ignore them.
But I can't be the only one to notice that someone with no relation to a certain art seems to spend a lot of time tearing down that art. They go into other forums and even register with the sole intent of telling folks that other arts are not as great as theirs. Am I really the only one to notice?
If someone is commiting fraud or hurting others, then that needs to be stopped. But if it is merely a matter of opinion about how things should be or what standards should be held, what kind of ego does someone have to have to state that they know the answer, the only answer and that anyone who disagrees with them must be crushed?
Or what kind of insecurities are they dealing with? Are these folks trying to convince others that all other arts suck, or are they trying to convince themselves that what they do isn't a foolish choice? I have noticed that the most vocal seem to be those that are young. It all strikes me like the way some of my teenage friends used to talk very big to all around them. The older, wiser and more secure guys never felt the need to prove anything to themselves or to anyone else and never felt the need to tear anyone else down.
Martialtalk has a policy against fraudbusting. But they don't seem to go out of their way to coddle people that come on here to try to swagger around and impress others. I think that the reason for this is that so much of what could be called fraud-busting actually has very little to do with claims that are false and more to do with trying to destroy competing opinions, theories and methods of doing the martial arts.
Again, I am not talking about people that lie about what they are or what they do. Someone who goes from teaching Shotokan to teaching BJJ after watching a video and claiming to be a champion from Brazil is fair game if they start posting on a BJJ board IMO. Nor am I talking about sheer stupidity or things that will land you in court. I am talking about people who can't seem to allow anyone else to have an opinion about how we should go about our martial arts training.
So, am I the only one that has noticed the comparison between the Taliban and the way some folks act on the internet? What do you think the reasons are? Lets try to keep this polite and lets not use specific names if possible.
I also want to stress that I am not sympathetic at all to folks like Bruce Calkins. A thread I was just participating in linked to a thread with him in it. People that come onto boards, acting like they are experts with dubious claims need to be put in their place or else they will take over.
What I want to talk about are folks that feel the need to supress any other art or way of thinking about the martial arts other than what they do.
Sometimes it seems to be for money. There seems to be no better way to try to convince people that you have a good system than by trashing someone else. If you are in a position to look down your nose at others, then maybe people will think you know enough to make that type of judgement.
But there does seem to be a lot of people that come into forums that they have nothing to do with just to let the particpents know that they suck.
As I said, I don't think the staff here would let it happen. If you don't know what I am talking about, you probably will have to find the worst examples on other parts of the internet.
Everyone probably thinks that the art they study is the best. If we thought that the art we study wasn't the best, why bother to study it? But of course, what is best for me might not be the best for you. Some people only want just enough to give them an edge should they be attacked. Some want or need something that will take up a good part of their time and energy. Some people need to run away from violence if they can, and there are some brave people who need to run towards violence. Someone working a door might need to know how to hold someone for the police, someone in a rough neighborhood might be better served learning how to use a legal weapon.
There is no one right answer.
But that does not seem to stop some people from deciding that they and only they have the right idea when it comes to martial arts. They will go out of their way to make some forums unreadable with all the disruptions they cause. There is actually one site where the members get together and talk about trying to cause trouble in other MA forums!
It all reminds me of the Taliban. It was/is not enough for them to do certain things or go without others, everyone must show their devotion to God. Of course, the devotion to God by someone forced to do so probably is not very great. And the idea of sacrifice in Islam as explained to me is that the items that they must do without are like Lent- you have to give them up yourself to show your willingness to do without for God. So if someone else makes that choice for you, it has no meaning.
But that is not enough for the Taliban, and it is not enough for some of the folks on the internet it seems.
I do many arts. I don't do a lot more. If something does not appeal to me, I spend my time on something that does. I don't read or comment on boards devoted to things I don't do. It would be a waste of my time. I do not like golf and my answer to golf programs or internet sites is to ignore them.
But I can't be the only one to notice that someone with no relation to a certain art seems to spend a lot of time tearing down that art. They go into other forums and even register with the sole intent of telling folks that other arts are not as great as theirs. Am I really the only one to notice?
If someone is commiting fraud or hurting others, then that needs to be stopped. But if it is merely a matter of opinion about how things should be or what standards should be held, what kind of ego does someone have to have to state that they know the answer, the only answer and that anyone who disagrees with them must be crushed?
Or what kind of insecurities are they dealing with? Are these folks trying to convince others that all other arts suck, or are they trying to convince themselves that what they do isn't a foolish choice? I have noticed that the most vocal seem to be those that are young. It all strikes me like the way some of my teenage friends used to talk very big to all around them. The older, wiser and more secure guys never felt the need to prove anything to themselves or to anyone else and never felt the need to tear anyone else down.
Martialtalk has a policy against fraudbusting. But they don't seem to go out of their way to coddle people that come on here to try to swagger around and impress others. I think that the reason for this is that so much of what could be called fraud-busting actually has very little to do with claims that are false and more to do with trying to destroy competing opinions, theories and methods of doing the martial arts.
Again, I am not talking about people that lie about what they are or what they do. Someone who goes from teaching Shotokan to teaching BJJ after watching a video and claiming to be a champion from Brazil is fair game if they start posting on a BJJ board IMO. Nor am I talking about sheer stupidity or things that will land you in court. I am talking about people who can't seem to allow anyone else to have an opinion about how we should go about our martial arts training.
So, am I the only one that has noticed the comparison between the Taliban and the way some folks act on the internet? What do you think the reasons are? Lets try to keep this polite and lets not use specific names if possible.