Does your school or club have a clearly laid out "Instructors Code of Conduct"? If yes, is it published or in some other way made available to the students?
For myself, I feel that providing such information in writing reassures students, and provides guidance to instructors. As both a middle school teacher and a TKD instructor, I would much rather have written guidelines than unwritten ones. I use the guidelines provided by Gen. Choi, in the Encyclopedia of Taekwon-Do as the instructor's side of the student/instructor relationship - along with the Tenets and the Student Oath. As far as I'm concerned, those provides sufficient guidance - the student's side of the student/instructor relationship is in the YomChi gup handbook, as is the Oath and the Tenets (see below), and the instructor's side is in the YomChi dan handbook.
Student / Instructor Relationship (instructor's side)
Courtesy
Integrity
Perseverance
Self-Control
Indomitable Spirit
Student Oath:
I shall observe the Tenets of Taekwon-Do
I shall respect my instructors and seniors
I shall never misuse Taekwon-Do
I shall be a champion of freedom and justice
I shall build a more peaceful world
For myself, I feel that providing such information in writing reassures students, and provides guidance to instructors. As both a middle school teacher and a TKD instructor, I would much rather have written guidelines than unwritten ones. I use the guidelines provided by Gen. Choi, in the Encyclopedia of Taekwon-Do as the instructor's side of the student/instructor relationship - along with the Tenets and the Student Oath. As far as I'm concerned, those provides sufficient guidance - the student's side of the student/instructor relationship is in the YomChi gup handbook, as is the Oath and the Tenets (see below), and the instructor's side is in the YomChi dan handbook.
Student / Instructor Relationship (instructor's side)
Tenets:1) Never tire of teaching. A good instructor can teach anywhere, anytime, and is always ready to answer questions.
2) An instructor should be eager for his students to surpass him; it is the ultimate compliment for an instructor. A student should never be held back. If the instructor realizes his student has developed beyond his teaching capabilities, the student should be sent to a higher ranking instructor.
3) An instructor must always set a good example for his students and never attempt to defraud them.
4) The development of students should take precedence over commercialism. Once an instructor becomes concerned with materialism, he will lose the respect of his students.
5) Instructors should teach scientifically and theoretically to save time and energy.
6) Instructors should help students develop good contacts outside the club. It is an instructors responsibility to develop students outside as well as inside the training hall.
7) Students should be encouraged to visit other training halls and study other techniques. Students who are forbidden to visit other clubs are likely to become rebellious. There are two advantages for allowing students to visit other gyms; not only is there the possibility that a student may observe a technique that is ideally suited for him, but be may also have a chance to learn by comparing his techniques to inferior techniques.
8) All students should be treated equally, there should be no favorites. Students should always be scolded in private, never in front of the class.
9) If the instructor is not able to answer a students question, he should not fabricate an answer, but admit he does not know and attempt to find the answer as soon as possible. Too often a lower degree black belt dispenses illogical answers to his students merely because he is afraid of "losing face" because he does not know the answer. Always be honest with students.
10) Never betray a trust.
Courtesy
Integrity
Perseverance
Self-Control
Indomitable Spirit
Student Oath:
I shall observe the Tenets of Taekwon-Do
I shall respect my instructors and seniors
I shall never misuse Taekwon-Do
I shall be a champion of freedom and justice
I shall build a more peaceful world