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I didn't strike her. Chill out.So, you've caused permanent injury to someone, because you wanted them to see how unskilled they were? Well, that's ****ing brilliant. Good job. Good thing it wasn't someone claiming they could fight off a rapist. I doubt the cops would believe the "I had to rape her because she said she could fight off a rapist and I had to prove her wrong, because I cared about her" bit. Some people, sheesh.
We test the logic of our motion all the time. She is the one who wanted to hit me. She was not a student until that moment. There is no comparing letting someone hit you to rape. You are out of line with that logic. The snowball effect is a falacy.On the "then it's probably time she was!" part, I agree.
However I disagree with "Things like this happen all the time, mistakes made, lessons learned. ". How would you feel if you were the one hurt because your "well meaning" friend decided to show you the error of your ways? Should your instructor dislocate something on you as a correction? Break something? There are better ways, and any competent instructor will know that. Then again, is "The Trash Heap" a trained instructor, or just a student who aspires towards such "greatness"? I'm too lazy to look. :lol:
On the rest, no I didn't accuse him of being a rapist. I made a comparison to the logic of his statement. RIF!
Oh, by all means, defend your position. Logic is on your side.Sorry, too busy chilling to continue here. As you can tell, I'm turning Smurf Nut Blue.
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Depends on the amount of cervesa I've had. LOL!Oh, by all means, defend your position. Logic is on your side.
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Sean
Sorry, too busy chilling to continue here. As you can tell, I'm turning Smurf Nut Blue.
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Tez, I have become friendly with many people in the UK and have never had a person repeatedly misinterpret my posts as you have. It's like you've decided to bicker with me and look for fault or offense where there is none. I'm confident, in spite of your continued lessons on British culture, that it has nothing to do with your being a Brit and my being an American.I'm British we don't do sharing, we have to know each other for forty years before we get beyond discussing the weather, I kid you not.
We met an American couple a while back and within half an hour of knowing them we knew everything about them and their family including all the tragic bits, we were horrified tbh.
I get hurt all the time in training, it's not a big deal. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I don't think she was hurt because her well meaning friend thought he was teaching her a lesson, she was hurt because he didn't duck when she punched him and she hurt herself, tough! One of our guys threw a punch the other guy moved and the lad who punched dislocated his shoulder, she could have done the same.
You may think I'm hard hearted, I'm not but I live and work with the British military who have an expression .......sympathy comes between s**t and syphilis in the dictionary. (will have to wait and see if that makes it past the censor lol) They endure suffering, mutiliation and death as well as fear daily out in the sandy regions so it's unlikely that any of us will feel for someone who punched someone and hurt their hand etc. Sorry but we're not known for having the stiff upper lip for nothing lol!
Fair enough. For whatever it might be worse, my initial post was less about sarcasm than incredulity.Stevebjj, to be honest, what turned me off from your first post was the sarcasm. It was neither helpful, nor instructive. (Which I responded to.) After the first post, you've made some really good points, but it's hard to separate them from the feeling I got from the first post of kicking ToD while he was "offloading" or sharing. You don't do that in an AA meeting, or a Anger Management class, that kind of sarcasm is counter-productive. Unfortunately that clouded the effectiveness of your later posts. Fortunately, ToD seems to have been able to take your points for what they were, and learned from them.
Honesty does not have to be guilty or apologized for.
regards
Brian King
Not hard at all really. And she did hurt her hand a little but that only lasted a few days. I later taught her a little trick on preventing injury by anchoring up through the center and hitting with the heel palm for now.How hard did she throw this punch? Did she throw it with all her weight behind it? Has she thrown punches before?
Typically, when someone strikes another object with a bare fist for the first time, they don't go whole hog on the thing - if they have punched things before, they realize that if you do it wrong, it hurts!
I've been in this situation before, with nothing coming of it -- usually I turn my left shoulder to them, give it a flex, and let them hit! They feel the solidness of the impact, feel a little sting, and then are open to instruction. Nobody's ever hurt themselves, because nobody's been stupid enough to hit me that hard without knowing what they're doing.
Stevebjj, to be honest, what turned me off from your first post was the sarcasm. It was neither helpful, nor instructive. (Which I responded to.) After the first post, you've made some really good points, but it's hard to separate them from the feeling I got from the first post of kicking ToD while he was "offloading" or sharing. You don't do that in an AA meeting, or a Anger Management class, that kind of sarcasm is counter-productive. Unfortunately that clouded the effectiveness of your later posts. Fortunately, ToD seems to have been able to take your points for what they were, and learned from them.
Not hard at all really. And she did hurt her hand a little but that only lasted a few days. I later taught her a little trick on preventing injury by anchoring up through the center and hitting with the heel palm for now.
Sean
Okay. I give up. It's all me. It was a freakish combination of coincidence and my imagination. My fault entirely.Stevebjj, you've taken the fact I answered one of your points by quoting your post to mean that I was talking to you exclusively, I wasn't.
The sharing comment wasn't addressed to you. It was my opinion of the whole thing.
The way you lay it out, you couldn't have responded any other way. You tried to tell her verbally and she didn't believe; so physical is what she had to have to show her her dangerous belief.I feel kind of bad, but I have this female friend whom was throwing fake punches at me. I ignored the fients and continued with what I was saying to our other friend. She asked why I wasn't even flinching and I thought about it and explained that I somehow could tell that by the way she moved, I did not sense a threat. Later over a game of chess it came up that she felt she was capable of hurting me. With no bragging intended, I told her she would hurt herself before she ever hurt me. She demanded I up to feel the wrath of her punch; so, I did. She has been to the doctor twice since the incident.
I feel bad but, I felt she really needed to know, given her line of work, which is both security and bartending. Should I have let it go so far?
Sean
Depends on the amount of cervesa I've had. LOL!