Icewater
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cali_tkdbruin said:Yes, that's my current dilema. What happens later on down the road if after my daughter steps up and puts the other kid in her place? What if this doesn't work and the situation escalates further either with retaliations or legal troubles?
In my experience, winning or losing is not so important as standing up for yourself against bullys. Whether you win the fight or lose the fight, you fought for your rights. If consequences come, it just means you will have to fight for your rights again, but the second time will be easier if you know you have stood up once and survived. As long as you have 'right' on your side, people will know and understand. If everyone worried about all the 'what if's' where would we be?