Let me see if I understand this right...
You had a friend who was being kind of stupid, punching at you. You proceed to let her punch so incorrectly that she suffers instantly a chronic injury, that may not heal for many months, and may be a recurring problem for her.
And, I suppose, you're feeling a tad guilty about that.
I think you should feel some guilt over that. A few minutes thought, and you could probably have found a much better way to teach the same lesson.
However, she also brought it on herself, and bears the ultimate responsibility. She hurt herself; you simply failed to minimize the chance of that. There does come a time with some students that you have to let them learn lessons the hard way.
A side note... You're surprised that people came to the wrong conclusion. Reread your posts. You don't give much info to judge by. Perhaps a more complete story in the first place might have avoided the confusion.
You had a friend who was being kind of stupid, punching at you. You proceed to let her punch so incorrectly that she suffers instantly a chronic injury, that may not heal for many months, and may be a recurring problem for her.
And, I suppose, you're feeling a tad guilty about that.
I think you should feel some guilt over that. A few minutes thought, and you could probably have found a much better way to teach the same lesson.
However, she also brought it on herself, and bears the ultimate responsibility. She hurt herself; you simply failed to minimize the chance of that. There does come a time with some students that you have to let them learn lessons the hard way.
A side note... You're surprised that people came to the wrong conclusion. Reread your posts. You don't give much info to judge by. Perhaps a more complete story in the first place might have avoided the confusion.