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The problem with caloric reduction is that over time your body adapts and gets more and more efficient (lower heart rate, lower blood pressure, slower hair and nail growth, lower stamina etc.) to face the lower caloric intake. Weight loss slows down and one can even rebound. Youāve probably heard of the yoyo effectā¦Thanks for the advice re: weight loss - one of the fundamental lessons I've learned is that exercise plays an important supporting role but isn't the main act. I've lost what I've lost by caloric reduction, and it's still coming off; it's been really gratifying.
But I'll check out the book you recommended; I'll embrace any opportunity to move forward by science rather than instinct.
In order to have built a BMI of 46, our new friend mustāve been eating well beyond his metabolic requirements. Simply reducing his intake to what a man of his height should have will result in a gradual reduction in weight. He might enter starvation mode, but with lots of boxing () and associated exercise, heāll get through that.The problem with caloric reduction is that over time your body adapts and gets more and more efficient (lower heart rate, lower blood pressure, slower hair and nail growth, lower stamina etc.) to face the lower caloric intake. Weight loss slows down and one can even rebound. Youāve probably heard of the yoyo effectā¦
Yes thatās true. Calories are just a unit of energy andy eat derived from differing sources is like warming yourself next to a pike of burning wood or kerosene or waste plastic. Youāll get heat but also different noxious byproducts as they burn.On top of that not all calories are equal: 300 calories from an avocado or a mars bar will trigger completely different biochemical reactions; the mars bar will cause your blood sugar to surge, which will trigger a release of insulin and further reactions; the avocado on the other hand will barely influence your blood sugar and insulin levels.
Reductionism calories is a good start though and you will lose weight. My brotherās a GP who deals with obese people who tell him they have āhormone problemsā or a āslow metabolismā which makes them fat. He used to reply with, āFunny that you never saw fat people in prisoner of war campsā!So itās not really the number of calories that matters but what your body does with that food intake.
You still have to win that fight with the one person you are fighting before you worry about the potential other people.Thanks - as I said to Mr. Mattocks:
So this is the grappling side of the argument! Thank you!
Can I ask a follow-up: From what I've read and heard, grappling is usually given points for self defense over boxing/striking. The only counterargument I've heard is that going to the ground can be bad in a situation that's 2 (or more) vs. 1.
How would you frame a response to that?
āsaav
A slow metabolism can result from lasting caloric reduction: the body adapts to changing conditions and progressively uses less and less calories. That's the beginning of the yoyo effect that has been experienced by zillions of people sticking to the conventional diet for a longer period of time.Gyakuto said:
Reductionism calories is a good start though and you will lose weight. My brotherās a GP who deals with obese people who tell him they have āhormone problemsā or a āslow metabolismā which makes them fat. He used to reply with, āFunny that you never saw fat people in prisoner of war campsā!
Why the enthousiasm for plant food now? What does it have to do with calories all of a sudden? Have you changed your mind? Do plant calories count different? Well actually yes, you are right on this: Animal proteins have been observed to increase insulin levels, leading to weight gain. So, yes, when losing weight, you should prioritize vegetables. And as you unwillingly acknowledge, it's not just about calories.Gyakuto said:
Just eat 2000 calories (or whatever) a day, derived mainly from plant sources, do your boxing and training regularly and frequently and youāll be fit and healthy in 2-3 years. Itās not rocket science It sounds like youāve done really well already
In recent years GPs have become more aware of the deeper benefits of nutrition and how it affects overall health and wellbeing. I am curious Gyakuto, do you know what kind of training your brother has received on nutrition and exercise? It would be interesting to know how many hours of training GPs are given on nutrition, healthy eating and exercise requirements.My brotherās a GP who deals with obese people who tell him they have āhormone problemsā or a āslow metabolismā which makes them fat. He used to reply with, āFunny that you never saw fat people in prisoner of war campsā!
Here's another one:This is from 2018 but I wonder if training protocols have changed?
We learn nothing about nutrition, claim medical students
A leading GP estimated that up to 80% of his patients had conditions linked to lifestyle and diet.www.bbc.co.uk
Soooooā¦ whatās your point?Army Regulation 600ā9 - The Army Weight Control Program
Army Regulation 600ā9 - The Army Weight Control Program550cord.com
This is not a response to you, but a reading recommendation for the OP.Soooooā¦ whatās your point?
Normally, I recommend that potential students simply do their research to find locally convenient schools, pre-screen them to find those which work with their schedule and budget, then visit as many schools as possible to get a feel for the atmosphere and get a sense of whether they will enjoy the classes. If you don't enjoy the process of training, you won't stick with it consistently enough to get any real benefits.Hey all ā
Iām planning to BEGIN a martial arts journey, and Iāve done a little bit of research and have some ideas I want to run by you.
PHYSICAL:
MENTAL:
- Iām old. Early fifties. Iām obese, and tall. 6ā2ā and 355 pounds.
- Iāve got wonky knees, but recent dieting (Iām down about 80 pounds) and daily exercise has improved them immeasurably.
- Lower body strength is much greater than upper.
After reviewing some (I believe) trustworthy sources, I thought I should engage with wrestling and boxing as disciplines. But Iām wondering which I should train first:
- If I knew I could avoid every potential conflict thatās in my future, I wouldnāt be training in MA.
- Iām ONLY interested in self-defense. I totally respect the martial arts, but I wouldnāt participate if I didnāt need to protect myself and my family. Two recent incidents in the NYC subway have lit a fire under my ***.
- I am only interested in training that involves sparring and live practice of technique. I did karate when I was a kid, and the katas never once helped me avoid an ***-kicking (understood that it might have been just the school that was the problem).
- If the training helps me get in shape, or lose weight, awesome! But Iām losing weight on my own now. I donāt want or need a āfitnessā or āworkoutā component for its own sakeāI just want to defend myself if things get physical. I plan to visit local schools and get the lowdown on what shape I HAVE to be in to practice with them and then meet their requirements.
- Iām not interested in competition, even if I could compete. I donāt imagine for a moment that Iāll be able to take on a dedicated martial artist. This is for the jokers in my neighborhood who sometimes get out of hand.
- I donāt want to practice martial arts for personal or spiritual development.
- I understand that as a precursor to training, I need to improve health, learn about situational awareness, etc.
In any case, whichever I do firstāand if it works outāI thought that a thorough grounding in both would be a good foundation for further study, such as BJJ or Judo. What do you think? This is obviously a long-term program, but Iām excited about it.
- Boxing? Since I imagine Iād need to lose weight before I start throwing people/getting thrown, I thought I could learn to throw a punch (and take a punch) before I start wrestling.
- Wrestling? Everyone Iāve talked to speaks highly of American wrestling as a great practice for self-defense. If I donāt have to worry about my knees, Iād start here.
Thanks all. Total novice here, so go easy on me if any of this is nutty. Iām trying to piece together multiple sources, only a few of whom I know, and Iām honored that you will be part of that.
- Which would you recommend for my first training? Boxing or wrestling? Are there training approaches or philosophies you value? Or specific NYC-area schools youād recommend?
- If I could, down the road, leverage this initial training to work in a third, more advanced discipline, which would you recommend?
- If this approach needs revision, Iād love to hear your thoughts.
(FWIW, one of the two incidents mentioned above involved a muscular kid {150-175 or so pounds} in his early twenties running straight into me on the subway platform as a train pulled in. I had no time to react, and wouldnāt have known what to do anyway, but he just bounced off me like a rubber ball. This made me feel like I could put my bulk to good use in a fight, if I only knew how. Just including for extra context if it helps.)
Not rocket science? Then how comes so many people are overweight in spite of everything? Not all fat people are lazy: I (probably we all) know courageous and hard working people with overweight. That can't be as simple as always claimed by classical nutrition theory or GPs bluntly refering to the Ausschwitz diet.
I can understand your reluctance to try Ozempic especially after reading the list of possible side effects But it is a miracle drug, in my opinion, and itās future variants will be even more miraculous (hopefully reestablishing cranial hair growth)I DID NOT want information about or access to the new drugs. I spent the first 20 minutes of my hour-long appointment being read a summary of Ozempic and the whole mishpucah by a condescending training doctor who kept at it even when I interrupted him and asked if I could discuss my diet. "But this will tamp down your hunger," he said, multiple times with different wording.
Weight loss is a mental game much more than a correct technique game.Good question - I can answer it (for myself, at least, and for now). Perhaps it will add something to this excellent and (again remarkably) polite and considerate conversation.
Here are some of the reasons that I am fat, according to Interested Experts (GPs, sports medicine people, MDs, PAs, NPs, nephrologists, nutritionists, shrinks, and other specialists who may or may not have had the training to justify their advice, and, worst of all, whose opinion I may not even have solicited):
I wonāt spend time proving that Iām not particularly lazy, hungry, stupid, immoral, immature, weak, or genetically inferior. If I were to venture a guess I would say Iām just about average in all of those categories. Thereās a history of morbid obesity in my family, but to me itās an open question whether genetics has anything to do with my case more than the culture's willingness to accept and provide vast quantities of shitty, cheap, (somewhat) good-tasting food.
- Iām lazy.
- Iām a victim of uncontrollable hunger.
- Iām stupid ā Iām not aware that Iām fat, you see.
- Iām immoral ā I lack standards about my appearance, which is probably a sign that I lack standards about other things like politics and parenting.
- Iām immature ā Iām just āa big babyā whose parents didnāt raise me right.
- Iām weak ā I donāt have the inner strength to stick to exercise or nutritional programs.
- Iām genetically flawed ā because one of my parents was fat, I was doomed, more or less.
- Iām a victim of āThe Cultureā/āThe Economyā.
- Iām a victim of unresolved trauma ā This one delivered most often by people with no knowledge of my history who nonetheless were willing to render an (incorrect) diagnosis minutes after our acquaintance.
I have so many stories about Interested Experts being completely wrong about the causes of my obesity that Iām not sure where to start, so Iāll start with my latest encounter.
Once I started losing weight this last timeādown from my start at 432 and having reached 405 or soāI made an appointment with the nutrition unit of a major, world-renowned teaching hospital to get some advice. I told them explicitly and repeatedly in the run-up to the first appointment that I wanted nutritional advice only, that I DID NOT want information about or access to the new drugs. I spent the first 20 minutes of my hour-long appointment being read a summary of Ozempic and the whole mishpucah by a condescending training doctor who kept at it even when I interrupted him and asked if I could discuss my diet. "But this will tamp down your hunger," he said, multiple times with different wording.
When he continued to push back(!), I told him: "Please stop. I know why Iām fat. I'm not fat because I am hungry; I haven't been hungry in years. Iām fat because I am depressed." This depression has to do with a lot of unprocessed childhood trauma which I only started recently to understand and treat effectively. Shitty, sugar-laden food was the drug I took to handle the depression. If I had enjoyed alcohol, I would have used that; if I had been introduced to heroin and liked it, I would have used that, and so on (Iāve also had a hard time kicking nicotine and THC, but overeating was my real problem).
I wonāt share the particular childhood trauma because it isnāt really essential to this conversation, but I will share that it was very public, tons of people knew about it, and NO-ONE, from school counselors to the parish priest to my immediate family, knew how to offer early intervention, care or guidance after it happened. The eating was a learned behavior from my family, who would use food to mask/battle their own depression (often about the same event that kicked off mine). If any of the list of āreasonsā I mentioned above apply to drug addictionāif youāre stupid to do drugs, for instanceāthen Iām stupid as charged on all counts when it comes to food. But I know so many families where drinking and drug use are ongoing, inter-generational commitments to managing stress and trauma that itās still surprising to me that people donāt recognize that sugar, salt, and fat play the same roles for other people.
For instance, back at college, I could drink a gallon of vodka at a party and feel only slightly inebriated. Iād also feel slightly grossed out. I just didnāt want it. It wasnāt a drug that āspokeā to me or my body, andāas my childhood trauma was starting to catch up to me at the timeāI really wanted it to work! I TRIED to drink to excess. It just never made an impact. Some drugs work some people, some don't.
But lasagna, or candy, or coke, or french fries? They did the trick. And guess what? They were everywhere, they were legal, they were inexpensive, and the negative consequences of their consumption arrived only years after the habit was formed. Because eating, of course, is something that everyone has to do. No one blamed me for eating badly or too much until long after I started; they started blaming me for overeating ONLY when my weight started to balloon. But at that point the habit was already in place, and the insufferable, uninformed moralizing about it (youāre stupid, weak, a baby...on and on and onā¦) ONLY REINFORCED THE HABIT.
(Sorry for the caps, but I promise you this: If someone tells you that they lost weight because they were ridiculed by an *******, they're most likely defending their own need to be an ******* to someone else.)
The thing that broke it for me was a certain form of alternative therapy, which changed my life. Again, the details arenāt important for this conversation*, but within two weeks of my first experience, I was reducing calories and working outālifting weights, low impact cardio, and so on. It removed a block for me, or an association ā I wasnāt using my body to mediate and diffuse my grief anymore. My body wasnāt a separate battleground or treatment center where I worked it all out; it was just part of me, one part of me, and I could take care of it and enjoy inhabiting it. I wasnāt a big drug taker and was a genuine, if desperate, skeptic, but this alternative therapy treated my depression and anxiety, and I didnāt need the food to hold them at bay anymore.
As I mentioned, this is a personal story. Other people may have a different set of causes, or mix of the same ones, for overeating. And Iām not anywhere near done with it, as my first post demonstrates. In fact, six months in, I relapsedāsomeone dear to me died, and I slipped back into depression. Surprise surpriseāI went back to not working out, and eating through my grief...but I could see why I was doing it this time; I could even see that I was doing it this time. I let I play out a little, didnāt beat myself up for āfailingā (youāre stupid, weak, a baby...see how it works?) and then I got back on track. Iām down 82 pounds now, lowest Iāve been in twenty years.
So, to answer the question: I was overweight, in spite of everything, because of:
Does food choice play into the weight loss? I have inexpert thoughts on that subject that Iāll save that for another post, because itās going to be another long, boring screed, (my apologies). But I think the answer is unclear. For me. I claim no expertise except for the sneaking suspicion that no Bill Maher joke about fat people ever made someone put down a bucket of chicken.
- childhood trauma and the depression and anxiety that came from it
- a lack of meaningful intervention in the wake of the trauma
- learned cultural behavior, i.e. my use of food as a drug to address depression and anxiety
- a genetic propensity to respond to food as a form of medication, and
- the easy and inexpensive availability of that drug
Hope this sheds some light, on one case at least...
--saav