See that's the kind of stupid thinking (not yours Gordon) that we need to get rid of... not partially, but completely. It puts a lie to what's really out there. It hides the truth.I worked in a literacy agency in the eighties that also advocated for disabled people, and nobody talked that way. However, one of our meeting rooms in the rear of the building faced the lobby of a very expensive condominium complex. The managers of that building asked us to draw our blinds, just in case the wheel chairs upset their residents and visitors.
I don't think the word disabled is a bad one either... it still says that the person referred to does still have limitations. But technology IS getting better and better all the time. So should our attitudes.