I may be a novice, but if your earlier posting is accurate; your theories about kicking and possibly fighting in general left you “lying on the ground covered in blood from a broken nose and two black eyes and badly winded.”
Seriously, I’m beginning to feel like we have we have a vast cultural divide that would be very hard to fill. You say you live in a world where “reality,” is casual fighting – of the school, bar room and street variety, in which “heaps” of trained martial arts participate, win and walk home to tell the tale. A world where an arrest for fighting on the streets and bars is something to laugh out loud about, with police buddies in the dojang.
Fighting in my neck of the woods is never casual. An arrest for anything, especially of a martial arts practitioner, is nothing to laugh about. Also, the chances that you won’t walk home after a “realistic” altercation are very high. So yes, for some of us in this world we learn how to punch and kick with that knowledge. We train to, or try to get to a level where the reason we fear kicking and punching to the head is not because we can’t do it, but it’s because we begin having apprehensions about the consequence of what those kicks and punches can do. At a certain stage we begin to fear hurting as much as we fear being hurt. I think this what you call “novice” thinking.
Oh, and when we train we don’t use complicated terms, tell people we are doing anything special or consult the police. We admit we are simply doing Kukkiwon style taekwondo in which learning how to punch and kick is part of the training.