masherdong
2nd Black Belt
This was a topic that came up a couple of weeks ago in our school. Then the other night, my wife asked this same question. How would you respond to this question?
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masherdong said:This was a topic that came up a couple of weeks ago in our school. Then the other night, my wife asked this same question. How would you respond to this question?
mrhnau said:interesting... everyone took a different angle than me on this question.
instead of how much per week, I was thinking more along the lines of how many years, or what belt target... for instance, do you train till a black belt, a 5th degree blackbelt, ect. Or until you reach a certain age?
Flying Crane said:I think targeting an age or a rank is a mistake. If you train smart, then you should be able to train most of the rest of your life. If you target a rank, you may reach the rank and then lose interest and drift away. But if you never reach the rank you targeted, they maybe you get frustrated. Rank should never be a goal. It should only be a mile-marker along the way, as you train for a lifetime.
mrhnau said:from a practical perspective, if you don't want to teach (I really don't care to), that means you are likely going to be paying for the rest of your life. so, am I willing to be paying X amount per month/year for the next 60 years?
personally, I'd enjoy training for the rest of my life, but I can understand how that would get difficult, especially if I had kids and had trouble meeting ends financially. I don't think it would be a matter of losing interest, but I guess some people would after a while...
interesting... everyone took a different angle than me on this question.
instead of how much per week, I was thinking more along the lines of how many years, or what belt target... for instance, do you train till a black belt, a 5th degree blackbelt, ect. Or until you reach a certain age?
jgrimm01 said:If that goal is 5th Dan, can anything short of attaining that goal truly be considered 'enough'?
Until one reaches death. It is life, the only thing after life is death. It isn't a race and the end is not a prize, it is the experience along the way that matters most.masherdong said:This was a topic that came up a couple of weeks ago in our school. Then the other night, my wife asked this same question. How would you respond to this question?
Flying Crane said:But what happens when you reach 5th Dan? Mission Accomplished, time to quit? That is the problem when one sees it as a goal.
jgrimm01 said:I totally agree...I was just saying, who defines what 'enough' means? Each person has his/her own ideas of what it means to them. A 'goal' is an end to a means, a finite event, where 'enough' is speculative, meaning something different for everyone.
Personally, I set goals that once attained can be built upon...'enough' to me is when I'm satisfied that what I've accomplished that day/week/month is the best I could have done to get where I want to go.
Great topic....