Bill Lear
Brown Belt
Originally posted by rmcrobertson
Ah, the fantasy that Once Upon A Time things were perfect!
Behind all these demands for, "unity," I smell the will-to-power. I smell the desire to find Dad. I smell the longing for what never was.
Robert,
I think you have something there... Ed Parker was a father figure for many Kenpoists. Just look in the Journey and see for yourself. Many of the people that were featured in this book communicated this kind of feeling about him. Was he a good or bad man? I'm not in a position to make this kind of judgment. But, I will tell you this... He did make a hell of an impact on us didn't he?
I don't think its right or wrong for someone to look up to an instructor, but I do think that its damaging to idolize anyone to a point that he or she can do no wrong. The need to feel important sometimes clouds our judgment as human beings. Sheesh, our egos can make us do some pretty stupid things sometimes. I think the martial arts not only develop our strengths as people, but also show us our weaknesses. Now if we could only work past those weaknesses we'd probably get somewhere, eh?