Let's split some hairs. How many people do you really think CANNOT make decisions for their children? Why is it impossible for a social program to help this small population to learn to do so?
Live True addressed this much more clearly than I could.
This sentiment is one step away from saying
that "certain" people are incapable from learning anything.
Of course all people can learn - the question is,
what can they learn, and to what standard? There is a boy at my school named Eliab; he's 12. Due to problems caused by abnormal development in the womb, he has a permanent tracheotomy, a permanent stomach tube, limited control over the muscles in his head and neck, and no control over any other part of his body. No one is really sure if he understands anything anyone says, as he does not respond consistently to
any stimulus; sometimes he smiles, sometimes he cries, sometimes he does nothing - all in response to the same person entering the room. Can he learn? We don't know - but we're not going to stop trying.
I reject that and I reject any sentiment that leads down that road. Everyone is capable of learning...some people need more help or may need to learn different things. What is wrong with providing the ability to get help to do both?
My school has all sorts of programs for parents, designed to do just that. They are very poorly attended, no matter how hard we try to advertise them and convince parents to come - and the ones who do come are not the ones who truly need to be there. This is a societal problem, and the schools cannot solve it alone - and that is why I object to the schools being the focus of all blame, as much as I would object to saying that the schools are blameless. This, again, is the pendulum of which I spoke - parents need to parent, teachers need to teach - and
everyone in the community, parent or not, needs to ensure that children understand that education (whatever that education is determined to be comprised of) is necessary, and valuable... but too many children don't believe that, because their parents, and other members of their community, demonstrate to them clearly that education is not that high up the list.
What all of this comes down to is indoctrination. As teachers, we all learn to be part of this system, how to defend the system, how to propagate it.
I don't defend all of it - parts of the educational system are in serious need of revamping - but neither does that mean I will dismiss all the good that
is done out of hand, simply because some parts aren't working.
Well, the system doesn't work. It wasn't designed to work in the sense that any sane person would think about learning. It was designed to train a populace to become cogs in the vast massified uptopian society dreamed up by the industrial leaders at the turn of the last century.
If that's your opinion - let's dump the system entirely, shall we? Take the burden off society entirely, and put it on the parents. Those who can, can hire tutors; those who can't can band together to hire teachers; those who can't do that, or don't care, can teach their children themselves, or allow them to grow up illiterate.
If the system is broken - the come up with ideas to fix it. Dismissing it out of hand by decrying those who set it up poorly in the first place merely perpetuates the problem.
It may be incomprehensible for teachers to think of their students (or students parents) as capable of choosing what they want to learn. But it doesn't mean that its true. It's just dogma.
Some can - most, I would say, from my experience. But some can't. I sat in a meeting last year, with the mother of one of my students. He is 13; she is 26. She sat there, in front of her child, 2 teachers, a social worker, and an administrator, and stated clearly that every problem in her life was due to her son. She provided a long list of details. She went on to say that, at his age, he is an adult, and is responsible for himself - if he chooses to stay out all night, she's not going to go look for him; if he chooses to stay gone for a week or more (which he had just done), she would still not look for him - the school only knew he was a runaway when, after calling every day he'd been absent, the attendance clerk finally reached her directly, when he'd been gone 4 days... and no, she hadn't called the police... he was around
somewhere, why would she want to call the police for that? Do you trust this woman to make educational decisions for her child - or his two younger siblings?
There are at least 10 children in my school who are court-ordered to attend school, because their parents don't make them come when they don't want to; about half of whom are court-ordered because, as the oldest, they have to stay home any time one of the younger kids is sick, or the babysitter is unavailable, or the parent just doesn't feel like dealing with them. The other half just don't show up, and their parents don't do anything. There are at least 20 other kids who
should be on attendance contracts (this is out of ~750 students) but aren't, because the school can't afford to shell out $1500 per student to take them all to court. Do you trust
their parents to make good educational decisions for them?
We have students who have been placed in foster care because their parents have assaulted them, mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually, medically - any way you can think of. Do you trust
their parents to make good educaiton decisions for them?
Don't get me wrong - I love the kids I teach, which is I why I continue to do so, and most of their parents are involved and informed - or at least concerned and curious - but there are parents out there who just don't care, and I don't trust them as far as I can heave them, never mind with their children's future.
Maunakumu and Kacey, you both make some very convincing points on the issue of letting schools compete for students. Yes, I agree that many parents...if not most...are able to make decisions regarding what is best for thier children...given the time and the resources to do so. But it is becoming a norm, at least where I live, for parents to work 2-3 jobs, to make ends meet...and yes, some of that is because they overspent and made poor choices re: credit and homes....however, if you are working more than one job, and both in the home are working....when do you sit down to review the information and make the decision to affect your child's future? Over your 30 minute lunch break?
This is, of course, the more common parent who does not have the information to make the absolutely best decision for their children... except that frequently where I teach, it's parent rather than parents, and even then, every time something cuts their income just slightly, and they have to move to a different rental, which entails crossing the city line to where they're not in arrears - which means their kids change school districts. For the vast majority of students, we would let them stay the rest of the year, at least, regardless of where they live - but we cannot provide transportation (unless they meet the criteria for being homeless), and their parents can't provide it either, especially if they are too young to ride the public bus alone.
And even when the parent does have the time and information to make the best choice - there's that transportation issue again. You've determined that the best school for your child's needs is across town... but you don't have a car, and your child is 7 years old. How do you get the child to the school? You can't take the bus; you'll miss too much work. You can't move - it's too far from your job, and the area costs too much. So you leave your child in the nearest school, and do the best you can.
That said....indeed, the system is broken, and I think the reluctance of many is based on the seemingly overwhelming systemic changes that would need to happen to make the ideal world where everyone had the resources to choice and transport thier children to the best school for them.
It is indeed... battered and damaged, and yet continuing to do the best it can in difficult situations. The education system needs to be reworked entirely, to meet the needs of students today and in the future; it needs to be standardized across the nation, or at least within each state, so that students who move don't lose education to catching up to wherever the new school is in the curriculum. It needs to be research based, and the methods chosen for instruction need to be optimized for each student. The school year needs to stop following the agricultural calendar and meet for more days every year, to accommodate the needs of students and the ever-growing amount of information that is deemed "necessary", to provide time for all the so-called "extras" that have been cut to meet test scores - art, music, physical education, industrial arts, all the things that got cut to free money for "basics"... and which took away the things that motivated many students to perform in school.
But all of that takes money, which means the taxpayers must agree to pay it. Myself, I'd rather pay for education up front than Welfare and incarceration later - but too many people don't look at it like that; they look at test scores and say the schools aren't doing their jobs, and why put more money into a failing system. And yes - it's going to take money to fix the system in anything but little bits and pieces, and that's not going to do anything but put band-aids here and there, which will eventually come off.
I LOVE and applaud the idea that different children learn differently and should be given the opportunities to explore and learn as is best for them. I wholeheartedely support the concept. In reality, it would likely take several steps to reach that ideal, over many years. Institutionalized thinking and pragmatic realities that need to be recognized and worked with, would require a lot to get to the point you are proposing...at least in many urban centers and in some distant rural settings.
Me too. See above.
Meanwhile, what I would love to see is some minimum standards for critical thinking and exploration, smaller class sizes, and better benefits or circumstances for teachers (which could, but might not mean, higher pay) to encourage more people with vision into this very demanding and worthwhile career. I'd like to see more programs that encourage teaching as a second career for many professionals who have lots to share, and would make thier classes INTERESTING because they have real world experiences and examples to draw from!
I think...as first steps...that could go a long way.
It could... but again, it will require a societal change, and I just haven't seen that happening.
Again, I agree with your concepts, I just think that the implementation would take a lot of changes and several stages to make it a reality...particularly in some of the poorer urban and rural settings. I agree most parents could make the decisons, given time and resources....but deciding and getting there are two different things.
See above.
Again, thanks for the great conversation!
Thanks for your comments as well.