Rest assured that I would not do that
I sort of presumed you wouldn't. It was merely an example.
You are of course right in what you say from a macrosociological point of view. However, that is not exactly what I was getting at. Let me be a bit more specific. Speaking for myself I know that the single most powerful boost in my martial arts came not directly from training more, but from the sudden switch that caused me to fully devote myself to Sensei, and put all other activities (yes, family and work somewhat excepted) on the background. I effectively have no other hobbies than that which I find in Genbukan. Even more so, I don't need any other hobbies, they would simply get in the way.
Now, if I were to distinguish between on and off mat modes of interaction/communication I would not have that problem. But when I stopped making that distinction my energy multiplied, and I found myself training at every possible time and place. By making the distinction, for me, it would somehow diminish my martial arts to the status of "just a hobby". Now, once again, i'm not judging the good man for having hobbies outside of genbukan, or whatever. I'm merely stating how it can cause internal conflict and how it can be confusing, thus eroding the pure mind (or better: by "moving the heart", while it is best left "immovable") needed for good martial arts.
This is another aspect of how transposing TJMA to the modern day west can pose a challenge, or at least how it has posed a challenge for myself. Does that make any sense?
It is also worth noting (in my inexperienced opinion) that westerners as a people have more real social contact with one another that the Japanese. Maintaining the strong hierarchy that comes natural to the Japanese is mutually exlusive with having the more social interactions that exist between us westerners.
Actually, I think it would be possible, and even accepted, but that would require of the 'higher ups' that they maintain their distance in all their social interaction with anyone who has dealings with them.
I don't fully agree. It does not necessarily mean there has to be a distance. It means finding a different approach to get closer to each other. The teacher-student relation can be very close and very personal. Formal and polite languange and interaction doesn't change that. On top of that, Japanese society has pseudo ritualised interactions where status suddenly becomes irrelevant and where grunt can be candid to his superiors. Also, there are plenty of social interactions in Japanese society, it just tends to be more group organised, and more around work related groups than simply around being buddies. Social interaction is probably less unconditional, and more regulated, but certainly not less, nor less intense. on the contrary even I might guess. Let's face it, dwindling social interactions (not counting the net) is a phenomenon that has also reached us here in the west. People increasingly prefer to lock themselves in their houses with a sixpack, a pile of leisure electronics and a bag of nachos.