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...To understand others and how to communicate differing ideas and opinions we must understand how they think, how they communicate, and how they absorb information.
I would like this post twice, if I could!Yeah. And the hard part is to accept that others may communicate in a different way, may be holding very different presuppositions and may have a strong emotional attachment to those presuppositions. And then, of course there is the ego factor.
One thing that has helped me be able to enjoy communicating with others on this forum is that I gave up my "true believer" point of view a long time ago. I still practice an offshoot of WT with a guy who is definitely good. But I also train some other stuff, and I actively question the efficacy of everything I do. I believe what I have trained is a very good system, but it doesn't have all the answers. Believing that makes me a good deal more humble and less preachy than I once was.
When I ask for explanations from you guys, it is because I'm really interested in the solutions others have found. This is not the case for those who already believe that they or their sifu, lineage, etc. already have "the right" answer. If you already have the right answers, then all your posts will be directed at proving others wrong. All your questions will be constructed to elicit information used to support your argument and discredit the other person's position. If this is the way a forum member comes across, others will quickly tire of trying to answer their questions, or give vague and evasive answers so as not to feed what appears to be a very insincere line of questioning. Ultimately each side sees the other as being insincere, deceptive and, as LFJ noted, "not a straight talker".
Without taking sides, this is exactly how team LFJ-GB and team KPM-SG have been treating each other. The crazy thing is that neither side can see it or admit that they have a role in provoking the other group. Now that is not being a "straight talker"!!!
Ultimately each side sees the other as being insincere, deceptive and, as LFJ noted, "not a straight talker".
The crazy thing is that neither side can see it or admit that they have a role in provoking the other group. Now that is not being a "straight talker"!!!
I've always said that the root of all the issues and perceived tension in a online discussion forum is a difference in how things are defined. If we all have varying ideas on the definition of say...'hand chasing'...(and throw in the fact that we all drink our own particular blend of lineage-flavored Kool Aid).... we'll never get anywhere when discussing WC/VT/WT.
A true criticism would be something like a perceived violation of established principles, or something that is just impractical. I would most like such errors to be pointed out to me, if I'm making them. Why others would be agitated by having perceived violations pointed out to them, I will never understand! Again, it's something I welcome.
This kind of criticism can't exist without a video demonstrating how you move or do drills.
The questioning ended because of our differences in how we define things, as I noted earlier in this thread.
I wasn't about to continue the discussion you just quoted because to do so would have been pointless, since it was obvious our definitions are not aligned.
So, to me and my definitions, WSLPBVT violates basic ideas and is an inefficient method. And that is ok by me because I don't train in it.
Most lineages have plenty of video available to look at.
That's why I said I didn't know exactly what you were saying was inefficient about it and asked you to clarify.
I mean, just saying something is inefficient yet not being willing to clarify what you mean or explain your own definitions, is quite pointless. Why start or join the discussion at all?
Say what you mean. Give your definitions. Make things clear. Straight talk, you know? Then we can have fruitful conversations around here, and at least understand each other.
I don't understand the unwillingness of some to explain exactly what they mean.
You brought up a good idea about starting a thread about definitions...but I predict that may also quickly spiral out of control lol.
In brief, he (PB) "chases hands". He trains his flock to "chase hands". Thus, my viewpoint on his VT stands. Now, not to drag that topic back up; but this is exactly my point... you can counter with XYZ about how he is not chasing hands etc etc etc. And, this is because we have varying definitions and objectives about our individual systems.
Well ... sorry to say:There are 3 primary modes that humans use to process thoughts; visual, auditory, kinesthetic.
How "meta."Countdown to thread lock
Nope.If A puts up a clip online and B says it's a bad clip, should B put up a better clip to prove why he had said that A's clip is bad?
That applies to the person who put up the original video: if he can't support the argument made by the video, he should not have put the video up. The person critiquing the video only needs to support his written argument in a written fashion.In other words, can you say something is bad if you can't prove that you will be able to do better? IMO, if you can't support what you want to say, you should not say it in the first place.
Clarification: if the concept could be seen, but was subtle, I'd probably tell the viewers what they should be looking for, e.g. "at 1:25, I sink and deliver force by spiralling from the ground."If I wanted to show X concept in a video, but then I watched the video again before posting it, and realized that X concept couldn't be seen in the video ... I would still post the video, but I wouldn't say that it shows X concept in the video description.