jobo
Grandmaster
yea, what men think makes them attractive and what women find attractive are often at odds with each otherJobo’s right. Women like humor, confidence, and security. Make them laugh, make them feel safe, and show that you take care of yourself, and you’ll be fine. You don't need huge muscles for any of that.
As my uncle would say; Keep your clothes washed, your hair cut, your teeth white, and your *** clean, and someone will like you.
this isnt at all helped by the subliminal and some times blatant
advertising of companies trying to sell you things or services on the grounds it will make you more attractive, there are a lot of lonely men with big biceps and sports cars wondering what went wrong exactly
ive had my ups and downs in life and definitely romantically, but one think open my eyes, when i was in my early 40s, i married an extremely attractive girl in her mid 20s, i was very happy and not at all on the look out for a girl friend and in possession of a wedding ring, nothing else about my appearance had changed and suddenly im a magnet for other attractive women, even when im out on my own