I happen to know an eleven-year-old who's a black belt. He started when he was four; before he got his belt, he studied for six years. Two private classes, and at least one group class--for the last three years, two--a week. I might add he worked hard. When he tested for black, he did so with adults. The test lasted over two hours, during which he sat dead quiet until it was his turn. Was he perfect? No. Neither were the adults. Tell me: why isn't this good enough for you?
Since he got his belt, he trains even harder. He helps teach the younger kids. I have never seen him, no matter how stressed or tried or cranky, lose his temper. I have never seen him be unkind to someone, which is more than I can say of me. Tell me: why isn't this good enough for you?
Y'all are running on a fantasy of perfection and maturity in adults that is very far from the truth. No, this kid can't beat up every adult. (Though ask me, sometime, why his Dad has a buddy everybody now calls, "Speedbag.") Neither can I. Among other horrors, I train with Clyde. Is he a better martial artists? yes. can he beat me up? yes. Will this always be true? yes. Is he the only one of whom I might say this? No.
I quite agree with the notion that kids, on the whole, get promoted too damn fast. I agree that their yuppie damn parents demand this, for the same messed-up reasons that their yuppie damn parents foul up kids' soccer, and baseball, and football games.
However: is this true of every kid? No. My other comment is that this argument is running off a flawed notion of perfection in adults, who more often fail to be real martial artists than kids do.
Oh, incidentally--this is not the only kid I know who deserves his belt.
Thanks.