If you called me a fag that would be insulting, even if calling me a cigarette. However if you asked me for a fag and I realize that you are from England then I would not be offended at all and simply respond with an, I don't smoke.
It is all in the content or context. If you know I am not trying to insult but simply using a different word because of culture then no need to take the word as offensive.
I understand what you are saying when you refer to your club, we may use the term team in place of club. Our jackets and uniforms actually say Team TAEMA on them. However I am speaking of the facility in which your clubs trains when I say gym or even studio. I am not referring to your club. Even if I trained in my garage I would call it a gym for the purpose of what I am using it for.
I wasn't taking what you said as offensive I was trying to explain that we are a martial arts club because so many, not necessarily you but others who may read this thread, think that MMA isn't real martial arts and wouldn't train in a dojo which we do. It may be semantics to you but I want to put things in a proper context and be precise about what we do and where we do it as I want people to have the correct information to counter the lunatic fanboys and the hype from the television. I always bear in mind that I may be answering you but a lot of people will read these posts and I want to leave them in no doubt of the veracity of our martial arts. I don't want them having ideas of us being in a seedy back street gym training to beat the bejasus out of each other in a cage, thats why I insist on sayng we are a club training in a dojo.