What follows are a few semi-random ruminations on how I feel about the choice of the style I study. I remember when I was just getting going and I thought it was the best art ever. Then over time I got to meet some top level people in other arts. Eventually I grew up a bit. Oh, I still love what I do, but if I had to do it all over again? Well, who knows. it's a big world, and it's full of cool stuff.
Anyway, I got to thinking about this topic after talking to a beginning student after class the other day. In our conversation, made a reference to the fighting effectiveness of another well known martial art. The student wanted to know if our style could beat the other style, and looked disappointed when I answered, "not necessarily".
I remember thinking to myself, "Boy wouldn't these questions be so much easier to answer if I just 'drank the kool-aid' and really believed that my art alone was "the best ever". But I don't believe that. I just know that, right now, it's the best art for me.
And, there are so many reasons why I feel that way: In part because I really enjoy it. Partly because many years ago I sort of "fell into it" and now with so much time invested, it's something I'm reasonably good at, and I wouldn't want to change now. Partly because now I'm getting on into my late 50's, and I like that it's not an art that's heavily dependent on strength, flexibility, acrobatic skill. Or constant, hard-core sparring and grappling. I'm long past the time in my life when my body will endure that kind of stress on a regular basis... And, of course partly because it's a really cool art with a long and rich history that is quite effective for self defense.
Unfortunately none of these highly personal reasons seemed likely to satisfy a new student who just wanted me to tell him that what we do is simply the best. Not being a great liar, I ended up answering by describing what I see as our style's strengths
...and then I added the "clone" argument: What if you had an identical twin or clone of the same age, with the same strength, intelligence, coordination ...even the same old injuries and weaknesses. Suppose this clone trained in "martial art X" for the same time as you've trained in your art. What if you went up against your clone. How would you fare?
So here's how the conversation ended:
"Well", I told my student, "I'm confident that with what I know, any match against my "clone" would turn out fine, no matter what style the clone had studied".
"Really?" the student exclaimed. "Our style is that good?"
"Well sure our style is good." I replied. But if I went up against my clone, ...you know somebody with my same skills and intelligence ... we'd both call it off and go have a beer. And that would be just fine by me.
Anyway, I got to thinking about this topic after talking to a beginning student after class the other day. In our conversation, made a reference to the fighting effectiveness of another well known martial art. The student wanted to know if our style could beat the other style, and looked disappointed when I answered, "not necessarily".
I remember thinking to myself, "Boy wouldn't these questions be so much easier to answer if I just 'drank the kool-aid' and really believed that my art alone was "the best ever". But I don't believe that. I just know that, right now, it's the best art for me.
And, there are so many reasons why I feel that way: In part because I really enjoy it. Partly because many years ago I sort of "fell into it" and now with so much time invested, it's something I'm reasonably good at, and I wouldn't want to change now. Partly because now I'm getting on into my late 50's, and I like that it's not an art that's heavily dependent on strength, flexibility, acrobatic skill. Or constant, hard-core sparring and grappling. I'm long past the time in my life when my body will endure that kind of stress on a regular basis... And, of course partly because it's a really cool art with a long and rich history that is quite effective for self defense.
Unfortunately none of these highly personal reasons seemed likely to satisfy a new student who just wanted me to tell him that what we do is simply the best. Not being a great liar, I ended up answering by describing what I see as our style's strengths
...and then I added the "clone" argument: What if you had an identical twin or clone of the same age, with the same strength, intelligence, coordination ...even the same old injuries and weaknesses. Suppose this clone trained in "martial art X" for the same time as you've trained in your art. What if you went up against your clone. How would you fare?
So here's how the conversation ended:
"Well", I told my student, "I'm confident that with what I know, any match against my "clone" would turn out fine, no matter what style the clone had studied".
"Really?" the student exclaimed. "Our style is that good?"
"Well sure our style is good." I replied. But if I went up against my clone, ...you know somebody with my same skills and intelligence ... we'd both call it off and go have a beer. And that would be just fine by me.
