Do I feel bad for what happened to Native Americans and African Americans? Absolutely. Do I (me directly) feel responsible for it? Absolutely not
You shouldn't feel responsible. I know you weren't born or involved in that so I wouldn't hold that against you. My point of mentioning that is to show that sometimes we don't get to choose. I can bring a more updated version but don't take it personal.
Segregation, women's rights, religious freedoms for one group but not another. Those people didn't get to choose. But again, on the other side of all of that we can see where improvements were made and where equality was the goal. It's it perfect. nope. but it's movement in the right direction. But as I've stated history has a tendency to repeat itself. While discrimination still occurs very little is done on the basis of race. Instead it now based on gender. Some of those same arguments that were used for race discrimination are now the same arguments used for sexual discrimination.
I only bring up things in the past so you can compare the actions that happened then that are happening or that fairly recent as history goes. I don't know anything about your family but there's a chance that in the future your family will become as diverse as mine if it's not already so. If and when this happens and you are still living, you will view things from different perspective.
it just seems like a poor and very outdated example to use. It does not exist in our US society.
Again repeating trends. It doesn't matter when it happened as much as it keeps repeating and it's not always the same group of people. Where I agree with Jobo is . 'If it happened the first time, what would make me think it won't happen again."
This is what Jobo was talking about. Using US soldiers as guinea pigs to test the effects of the atom bomb testing. I agree with him on this part. Just not the part about the test being done to see how fast cancer grows.
This is about the historical trends of family separation of families that have occurred in the US.
I do not feel either of us really understand what is like to live in a country like Ukraine or Russia.
To be honest I don't want to know what it feels what it like. If we (any American or any person in our country) know how that feels due to something the US has done to us, then it means we ignored the signs and didn't stop it before it happened. It's my responsibility as much as it yours. It's your responsibility as much as it is mine. While we didn't do the deeds before our birth we are responsible for what we do in our lives today. Just my opinion on it. If we ignore that responsibility then it is our fault.
When history asks who stood up for what was morally right and fair. What will our answer be?
Believe me when I say my family is a rather strange mixed bag.
I believe you when you say it. You don't talk much about your family. I'm not saying you have to, but if I say something inaccurate about your family then correct me on it. Don't let me continue on "stupid street" lol. Be a friend. Don't let me walk around with a booger hanging out of my noise. Don't let me walk around with bad breath. lol Those are things I can correct. lol.
Why is it wrong for me to say I refuse to let it affect my sphere.
I will have to take your word on it. It's just that I look at things slightly different. Everything affects my sphere in one way or another. It's not always a negative thing, it's mostly positive even when it's one of those times I've put my foot in my mouth and learned that I didn't know what I was talking about. Other times it's just a blip on the radar and after that it's like what you stated. Race doesn't come up until something is mention that makes me think of it.
The thing that I appreciate about this conversation we have is that we are having it and it was fairly open about our perspectives without either one of us feeling like one was trying to "make the other person feel this way." At least I hope I wasn't making you feel that way as it wasn't my intent.