In this thread, I misread the reference, and wrote the following in my response:
What does a black belt look like to you? To those around you? If you are not a black belt, what do you think a black belt should look like? If you are a black belt,do you meet the "expected" appearance in part? In whole? Not at all? For anyone of any rank, how has your conception of how a black belt "should" look changed (if at all) since you started your MA training?
Also, is this a purely physical issue? Do (or should) black belts exude an air of competence? Of confidence? Neither? Both? Something else?
I understand completely. For years, when people hear about my involvement in TKD, and that I am a black belt, one of most frequent comments is "Really? You don't look like a black belt!"
As nearly as I can tell, I'm either supposed to be short, wiry, and Asian, or tall and muscular - but either way, I'm supposed to be male.
What does a black belt look like to you? To those around you? If you are not a black belt, what do you think a black belt should look like? If you are a black belt,do you meet the "expected" appearance in part? In whole? Not at all? For anyone of any rank, how has your conception of how a black belt "should" look changed (if at all) since you started your MA training?
Also, is this a purely physical issue? Do (or should) black belts exude an air of competence? Of confidence? Neither? Both? Something else?