Am I the only one who kind of regards this topic in relation to rank and sport kind of ironic?
I mean, the whole idea of rank came from sports rankings and was used as a "handicap" system like golf for competitors.
In a "traditional" karate dojo in Japan or Okinawa, it is not unusual to have kids as blackbelts and getting a blackbelt in a year or two. Again, Sho-Dan literally means, "low rank". It was used to distinguish someone as ready to start learning the art because they had the basics down.
It is only our perceptions of what a BB should be that cloud the issue. After the martial arts were exported to other countries more emphasis was placed on the blackbelt. Most of the teachers were GI's that only had a year or two of training anyways before they came back to the US. They had no formal training as how to train and teach students, they just did the best they could. They also stretched out the process a lot longer than it took them to reach the same goal. Weed out people and make a blackbelt a rarity, and it seems alot more impressive to outsiders, than a rank that is given to most people in their countries of origin. Think about it, you want to show how your blackbelts are the toughest around? Make it three times as long as someone from a different art. If in a traditional dojo it takes 2-3 years, we make ours wait 5-7 years. Well, now they have twice as much experience so of course they should be better. 5-7 years not enough, now lets make it at least a 10 year process so we can be sure that our blackbelts are never beaten.
So what does this have to do with respect and the sport of TKD? Why do we expect students to all have respect when the whole process is based on being better than everyone else? How do you teach humility when your whole grading system is based on "us" being the best? No matter WHAT your endeavor is, when you place the focus on winning vs. training you will have disrespect among the people.
Look at any professional sport, they don't care what a person's integrity is, they only want their skill. So, even though the person is a criminal and would be fired if they had a regular job, the offense is excused because they are a good athlete and get wins, which means more money for the owners.
Now bad behavior is encouraged in sports because it builds rivalries and sells more tickets. When I was a kid, it used to be Team X vs. Team Y and they would have a rivalry. Now, when you watch pro sports its, John Smith, and Team X vs. John Johnson, and Team Y. The team and teamwork is secondary to being a superstar. Do we really think that when all of society puts emphasis on this that our kids will be any different, or adults new to the sport of TKD will be any different? Nope.