ammonihah99
White Belt
That sucks and I'm sorry too that you were put in that situation, but . . .
I might be way off base here, but am I the only one who thinks that it's wrong to be hitting and kicking a girl . . . especially a sister? I mean I know that we're trained to defend ourselves, but if that was me and my teacher read what I just read, he'd kick the crap out of ME, and I'd be finding a new school.
I've been in situations where I've needed to restrain someone that was a friend who lost his temper, and it's difficult to control a situation like that, but when you start striking and kicking as hard as you can, it's out of hand.
I often think to myself, "What would a martial arts-trained police officer do?" The ones I know tend to stay away from striking and stick with defense-only and body manipulation principles. Because they are confident that they could easily handle the situation violently, it is more of a motivation to handle it non-violently.
Now that's one situation, but it's another when it's some person that you don't know. You have no idea what their skill level is. For all you know they have it in mind to kill you. That's when the blood starts pumping and you step it up a notch.
And maybe it's because I'm a really big guy and could handle easily my sister coming at me with all her fury. Keep in mind that I write this not knowing anything about you.
And aren't we taught to not let situations escalate? I wasn't there, but was there anything you could have done or said that would have given the story a better ending? The biggest trajedy is that your and your dad's relationship with your sister might be foever changed.
Again let me know if I'm out of line here. I want to know what you all think.
Ammon
P.S. Hi. I'm new here and I hail from Mesa, AZ.
I might be way off base here, but am I the only one who thinks that it's wrong to be hitting and kicking a girl . . . especially a sister? I mean I know that we're trained to defend ourselves, but if that was me and my teacher read what I just read, he'd kick the crap out of ME, and I'd be finding a new school.
I've been in situations where I've needed to restrain someone that was a friend who lost his temper, and it's difficult to control a situation like that, but when you start striking and kicking as hard as you can, it's out of hand.
I often think to myself, "What would a martial arts-trained police officer do?" The ones I know tend to stay away from striking and stick with defense-only and body manipulation principles. Because they are confident that they could easily handle the situation violently, it is more of a motivation to handle it non-violently.
Now that's one situation, but it's another when it's some person that you don't know. You have no idea what their skill level is. For all you know they have it in mind to kill you. That's when the blood starts pumping and you step it up a notch.
And maybe it's because I'm a really big guy and could handle easily my sister coming at me with all her fury. Keep in mind that I write this not knowing anything about you.
And aren't we taught to not let situations escalate? I wasn't there, but was there anything you could have done or said that would have given the story a better ending? The biggest trajedy is that your and your dad's relationship with your sister might be foever changed.
Again let me know if I'm out of line here. I want to know what you all think.
Ammon
P.S. Hi. I'm new here and I hail from Mesa, AZ.