Great link for lifting ideas, learning correct technique (do's/dont's) has video clips too.
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/exercises.htm
Offers free downloads for training log templates - record your progress
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/printworklog.htm
Great site for fighters, crosstrainers, MA's fitness etc.
http://www.rosstraining.com/articles/strengthtraining.html
The links should be very helpfull - Ive been lifting for over 15 yrs and in MA's over 20 yrs, I still found some interesting things on these site links.
My advise is research these links. Approach with patience and start slow. Too often people start working out and within a few days are in so much pain they never go back. The trick is to build up slow. When you start lifting only do 2-3 sets with normal reps for the desired exersize at a weight that feels too easy. Leave the gym the first 2-3 times feeling like that was easy... Trust me you will feel it a bit in a day or two. Slowly increase the number of sets and weight every week. You need to let your body get use to this new idea. Within about a month you will be able to walk into the gym and hit those weight with aggression and push to new limits every workout.
I highly recomend mixing it up. By that I mean you will find certain exersizes that are designed to build MASS (ie Bench Press - for massive chest) and there are the Cutting/Shapeing (ie Dumbell Fly's - for shaping the the muscle). You dont have to get huge (there is always someone bigger) just listen to your body and adjust as you go. Consistency is key. Most recomend not lifting weights more than 2 days in a row with out a rest day. The body, muscles, tendons, ligaments need recovery time. The body grows during the rest period.
I approach lifting with a Martial Artists mind set. When performing lifts I visualize: ie. Bench=pushing an attacker off me / Curls=one handed grab, pull in while twisting / Tricep extensions=backknuckle strikes
You get the picture - focus on proper breathing and frame alignment. Being martial artists we learn how the joints are not meant to move, what hurts people, etc. Dont hurt yourself in the gym by forgetting these things.
Ok - I rambled enough. Hope this helps... Train Safe in the Gym - recovering from injury takes longer than building muscle the right way... Slow and steady. Quick gains are quick losses and will have a cost.
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