How do we know if anything would have happened naturally it wasn't given the chance.
And that part about not forcing your beliefs on others is exactly what's happening here. Instead of allowing people to come to a decision naturally. The courts are totally changing rules against the will of the people.
When the founding fathers wrote the documents that formed this country, it's pretty clear that the only fully enfranchised citizen they envisioned was the land owning white male. Everyone else has achieved that status by virtue of some legal process, be it constitutional amendment, legislation or court decision. I don't see this process as substantially different. At some point in time, the beliefs of enough people change and through the combination of public awareness, court decisions and legislation there occurs a critical mass effect that results in change. I think the change in law happens because of the events on all fronts. Do the events result in the majority of Americans changing their minds? Or, do enough minds change that it allows for legal changes that protect citizens from the "tyranny of the majority" even though the majority may still be opposed to the change? I don't really care. I just think that this is an example of the constitutional process working. And at a time in our country when so much that is "American" is bashed on a global scale, I'm pleased to see that something fundamentally good and correct can still happen through that process.