...I've made my decision if they tell me no, I'm going to take my money somewhere else. I get the impression they may be the type of people who think there way is the only way. I hope I'm wrong but we will see.
Gotta stick to your guns. Way back, I used to belong to an association with rules like that. I liked what they taught, but I'm a curious guy so I like to look into other things too. I was a loyal senior student/instructor so they tolerated my infidelities up to a point. However, eventually after about a dozen years with them, this attitude (along with some very steep instructional fees) forced me out.
Many years later I picked up that MA again, but with a "renegade" group that is a little more open minded. However if I can find time in my schedule to start training a little BJJ, I may just forget to tell them about it. I'll just consider my silence "conflict avoidance".