I was at an even on Saturday and was commented on my flirt ability:
My friend's husband was promoted to Master Sergeant and we had arranged for a largish ceremony.
Although his unit is rather small, we also had the Boy Scouts along, since he is our Scout master.
I had my camera with me, which changes my way of interacting with people considerably, as well as my husband.
Which should put a damper on my flirtation, right!
Well, I did not think I was flirting. But some of the guests were just very easy going, not to say they were cutting up themselves.
But one of the ladies, i was told expressed the desire to be able to flirt like that. I am assuming she is just getting ready to look again after she got divorced. And as middle aged ladies are, she does look too much at her flaws rather than her assets.
So what is the way to a fun flirt?
To me it's being comfortable with myself.
After that nasty cold bug from last November, I am finally feeling good again physically. Still tired, but a good kind of tired, not the 'run over by a bus convoy' kind of tired.
I am good with the way I look, most of the time, when I don't look at pictures others take of me
or my white roots are showing.....I could get into better shape (see above, feeling good enough to contemplate physical activity), but over all, it's not bad.
I am not looking.
I am married, for more than 20 years (and saying that just shocks me)
Ok, so yes, some days I could happily do without Dear Husband. But he's a good guy. He isn't going anywhere, neither am I.
On the other hand, I am not dead.
I do look at the pretty guy.
But that is as far as it goes.
I think I can help my friend with the fist two points....offering her companionship to get fitter (not necessarily thinner...I can't remember the last time I got on a scale outside the doctor's office) just fit and more happy, the kind you get from exercising!
can't get the anxiety off her though, about actually being ready to look.
What's your take on flirting?
My friend's husband was promoted to Master Sergeant and we had arranged for a largish ceremony.
Although his unit is rather small, we also had the Boy Scouts along, since he is our Scout master.
I had my camera with me, which changes my way of interacting with people considerably, as well as my husband.
Which should put a damper on my flirtation, right!
Well, I did not think I was flirting. But some of the guests were just very easy going, not to say they were cutting up themselves.
But one of the ladies, i was told expressed the desire to be able to flirt like that. I am assuming she is just getting ready to look again after she got divorced. And as middle aged ladies are, she does look too much at her flaws rather than her assets.
So what is the way to a fun flirt?
To me it's being comfortable with myself.
After that nasty cold bug from last November, I am finally feeling good again physically. Still tired, but a good kind of tired, not the 'run over by a bus convoy' kind of tired.
I am good with the way I look, most of the time, when I don't look at pictures others take of me
or my white roots are showing.....I could get into better shape (see above, feeling good enough to contemplate physical activity), but over all, it's not bad.I am not looking.
I am married, for more than 20 years (and saying that just shocks me)
Ok, so yes, some days I could happily do without Dear Husband. But he's a good guy. He isn't going anywhere, neither am I.
On the other hand, I am not dead.
I do look at the pretty guy.
But that is as far as it goes.
I think I can help my friend with the fist two points....offering her companionship to get fitter (not necessarily thinner...I can't remember the last time I got on a scale outside the doctor's office) just fit and more happy, the kind you get from exercising!
can't get the anxiety off her though, about actually being ready to look.
What's your take on flirting?
