MartialIntent
Black Belt
OK, I think maybe we're getting lost in the semantics here, but that's ok, no harm done.Hand Sword said:The point of a sucker punch is you are not aware of it--plain and simple. You can't position, or defend unless you're aware. If you were aware--it's not a sucker punch! You don't see them, you feel them.
In regards to techniques, of whatever fashion..there are counters to them, or factors that occur during a fight that allow for their failure. You might think you have a good lock or hold on them, then bam! As a point my friend was bouncing the other night, and is a longtime Aikidoka. He was "walking" someone out with a "secure" hold, and whack! Got hit on the side of the head. It happens, nothing you can do about it, just regain control.
With respect to your friend the aikidoka, I would only say in a genuinely non-condescending way that there are "secure" holds and there are "secure" holds. And if he took one then perhaps that was not a watertight secure hold at all.
And yes of course you are right, these things can happen, I'll be the first to admit that and hands up yes I have got caught before too. But I think there's a complacency which your anecdote illustrates and it's that there's only potential for sucker punches when the practitioner is remiss with their awareness. I mean, the person whom your friend was escorting off premises has a free hand or an unrestrained head, well, either lock that down too or make bl00dy certain you're not in the firing line.
And I certainly mean no disrespect here to you or your colleague. Far from it. I've been on the wrong end of these things too as the result of mistakes on my part. *Not* a problem with my Aikido in any way, shape or form but rather a problem with my awareness that's all.
Respects!